Can’t Get Over Her? Relationship Help For Men!


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Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer


Getting over a woman you truly care about or love, even if you were the one who ended things, can be very difficult.  When a man falls for a woman, he has the same heart breaking feelings a woman does when the relationship ends. However, often what he does with those feelings is very unlike what a brokenhearted woman will do. This is the reason men can have trouble really moving on from an ended relationship.


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I say really because on the outside he looks and acts like things are going just fine. Yet on the inside, he carries the pain in a very lonely and quiet space within him.  This pain may come up at certain times but he will be quick to shove it back down or run from it all together.


The problem with this is by not facing and healing the pain, it keeps a man stuck from freely moving forward with his life. Instead, he ends up carrying this baggage with him.


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As a relationship expert and relationship/ marriage advocate, I always encourage, both men and women, to try everything first before ending their relationship.  That being said, if she or you ended things before working on the solutions to your problems, now is the time to consider reconciliation. It is far better to go back and try again then to spend months or years regretting that you never work things out with her.


Depending on the specifics of the breakup, it may feel like too much of a risk to ask her is there is a chance for your relationship.  However, the opportunity of getting back together and being happy with her will only happen when you take this risk.


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What if there is no chance of reuniting with her again?  Then it is time to allow yourself to go through the grieving process and heal completely. The grieving process is a natural occurrence so that humans are able to heal from a loss.


There are six steps in this process: Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Anger, Depression, & Acceptance.


The way each person moves through these steps is individual to them. One person may go through each stage in order, while another may jump back and forth between the different stages.


The bottom line is to allow and feel all the feelings surrounding the loss of her. As you do this, you naturally heal from the emotional pain and eventually come to a place of peace with the ending of the relationship.


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Another very important part of getting over her is to learn what part you had that added to the ending of  the relationship.


The reason this is so vital is that if you do not take ownership of your part, you are most likely going to repeat it in your next relationship.


No matter how easy it is to blame her for all the problems in the relationship, there are always places you can learn from in order to  grow personally as well as do better the next time.


If you would like to try to win her back or to be able to fully get over her and need some assistance you can reach me here.





Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website

How To Win Her Heart! Relationship Help For Men

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Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.



My male clients often ask me to let them in on the one secret that will help them win the heart of the woman they are pursuing. The fact is that there is not one full-proof secret that will work for every woman. However, there are certain things a man can do to successfully “woo” almost any woman.


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A woman who is interested in you wants you to pursue her. In fact, in order for her to fully fall for you, she needs to know that you want her and are willing to do what it takes to make it happen.

Many men are lost on how to pursue a woman. They ask me, “Should I open her door or not, pull out her chair or let her get it, call her everyday or let time pass in between conversations, pay for everything or let her pay sometimes?” The bottom line is when you are a gentleman and treat a woman like a lady she feels special and is more apt to open up to the possibility of a relationship with you. There are some woman who feel insulted by these actions, as they feel they are capable of doing it all for themselves. In this case, continue with your gentleman manners and let her know you enjoy treating her like a lady.


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When a man maintains his pursuit of a woman, she will feel his intentions are real for her and good. When this happens, she is much more willing to step into a relationship with him.

When a man is inconsistent with his pursuit of a woman, she is much moiré likely to question his intentions for her and look elsewhere.

There is some information out there, which suggests a man should play it cool and keep her guessing in order to hook her. I can tell you emphatically that if she is an emotionally and psychologically normal woman looking for a real relationship, this advice will push her away. On the other hand, if she has commitment issues, daddy issues, or unresolved issues from her childhood or past relationships it will hook her, but the relationship will be dysfunctional.


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When a woman sees a man consistently pursue her overtime, she feels safe to open up her heart to him. A woman who is interested in you, wants you to show her you are serious and not going anywhere. For a woman to invest her heart in you, really let herself go, and fully invest in you; she needs to know you are a safe man to do that with.

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website

Confused On What She Wants? Relationship Help For Men!

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Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.


One of the biggest complaints I hear from men is, “She doesn’t tell me what she wants, she just expects me to know it!”  This leaves most men feeling frustrated and angry because their goal is to make her happy. In order to make her happy, he must know what she wants from him and their relationship. He wants to be told exactly how to do it…makes sense right?


It makes perfect sense to men but unfortunately not to women.


Generally speaking, women operate from the mindset of, “If he cares he would know what I want!”  To men this is absolutely absurd; however, for women it makes complete sense…hence the problem in many relationships!


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I am assuming that if you are reading this article you are a man experiencing this with your woman.


In order to remedy this element in your relationship talk with her. I know what you are probably thinking, “Great! more talking just what I do not want to do!”


The bottom line is that men and women speak distinctly different languages. We think, process, interpret, and hear things in a different way than one another. The key to solving this problem is to learn how to talk with her in her language.


I wrote a whole chapter on how to do this in the It’s That Simple! Relationship Help Book for Men.



To give you an example, you could say something like, “Honey, I want to make you happy but I feel so frustrated because everything I try does not seem to work, can you please help me by giving me specifics of what you would like from me?”  Then be quiet and listen. I will repeat that as it is vital in this process…put all your focus on her and listen!


She will be so impressed that you are sharing your feelings and asking for help that she will practically fall all over herself trying to tell you everything that works for her.


The ironic part of this element in many male-female relationships is that she has already told him many times but he never heard it. In other words, she let him know what she is looking for from him but the key is that she did not do it in his language, so he never heard her.


Most men would like their woman to say some form of, “Honey, when you help with chores around the house without me having to ask, tell me I am beautiful everyday, and listen to me when I am talking, especially about my feelings that makes me feel very happy.”  However, the chances of this happening unsolicited are low because remember women are operating from the “If you cared you would know” mentality.


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As frustrating as this can be for men, once they learn the information they need to talk with her in a way she can hear, all these problems melt away and solutions appear.


Having trouble in your relationship and looking for some help? I work with men all over the country via phone sessions to guide them each step of the way to a better relationship.  You can reach me here.


Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website

#1 Secret Men Should Know! Relationship Help For Men

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Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.


Whether you are married, have a girlfriend, or are tying to win a woman’s heart there is one thing you definitely need to know….she wants real communication from you!


Not the answer you were expecting?


The bottom line is that women love to communicate because it helps them feel connected to the other person.  A big mistake many men make is overlooking this very important element for women.


Real communication is simply sharing, listening, and reflecting back what you are hearing.


So if it is so simple, why do men have such a hard time with this?


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Generally speaking, men are taught to suppress their feelings, toughen up, shake it off, and be a man. This conditioning, which starts in childhood, is reinforced by the social construct furthering the lack of communication skills men are taught. Women, on the other hand, are taught and reinforced from a very young age to talk about how they are feeling.


In addition, men and women communicate very differently. For example, when a man says to his woman, “I am very stressed at work” he is explaining fully how he feels. However, she wants to hear all about the details of why he is stressed out because that makes her understand what he is going through and feel closer to him. Often, this will ignite a disagreement between them because he will feel she is asking for more from him, which is more stress.


The key to success in any male-female relationship is to learn how to speak in the other’s language.  However, most men and women continue to speak to one another in their own language ending up frustrated and angry when it does not work.


It’s That Simple! Relationship Help Book for men gives you a step-by-step guide on how to understand yourself, your woman, and communicate in a way that really works for both of you. After reading this and applying your newfound tools in your relationship, you will be amazed at how happy your woman will be with you!


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Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website

Does She Always Nag You? Relationship Help For Men!

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Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.


Are you feeling as if you can never do anything right for your woman? Does it seem like no matter how hard you try she nags you about little things that do not mean anything to you? Are you tired of trying to make her happy only to have her complain about how you did it wrong again?


If so, then you are not alone!


One of the top complaints I hear from the men I work with is that they cannot figure out why she constantly nags. The answer is quite simple…ready? She is not happy with you and your relationship!

Now that may sound harsh but it is the reality of the situation. The real question that needs to be asked in this situation is, “Why is she not satisfied with you and where did this start?”

For many women in relationships, they need help with how to communicate with their man in a way he can understand. However, they are unaware of this fact. Because of this, they talk with him in a female language and become frustrated, angry, and ultimately resentful towards him because he is “not listening.” Sound familiar?

Men and women do not communicate, interpret, nor hear each other’s language in the same way. This is a major factor for relationships falling apart when they do not have to.

That is why after fifteen years of working with men, women, and couples I wrote It’s That Simple! Relationship Help Book For Men and for women.

The It’s That Simple! Relationship Help Books teach both men and women in relationships how to understand themselves and their partner so they can have a happy and loving relationship. Each book provides the exact information and tools you need to transform your relationship for the better. You will learn how to hear and deliver what she is asking for so she will never feel she has to nag you again!



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If you are thinking. “Wow that sounds great…I want to learn all of that but I hate to read” then the other option for you is to work with me directly. I teach men how to:

1. Talk & listen so nagging will never happen again!
2. How to have a great sex life with her!
3. Understand why she does and says the things she does that make no sense to you!
4. How to make her happy & your relationship thrive!
5. How to find a healthy balance for you and her so you are both happy and fulfilled!
6. How to keep her & your relationship trouble free!


If you are one of the millions of men who are scratching your head wondering what went so wrong and how to fix it, you will find the answers here for you. Contact me here and together we will get started right away!



Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website

Does Your Relationship Need The Help Of God?

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Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.


Most relationships experience some hurdles that will need to be overcome. These tend to fall into the same type of categories such as…


  • Communication Problems
  • Intimacy Problems
  • Lack Of Compatibility
  • Parenting Style Differences
  • Differing Life Goals
  • Feeling Unloved or Appreciated
  • Lack Of Knowledge In How To Have A Relationship With The Opposite Sex


However, those relationships that chose to put God at the center of their relationship have a high rate of success.


Quite a bold statement to make!


However, over the last sixteen years of helping men and women with their relationship, I have consistently found those who have a shared faith, actively pray, and look for the answers to their problems in God, move through their relationship issues much easier.


So, if all relationships are vulnerable to some problems, why do those who have an active faith endure better?


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The top reason is their commitment to their partner and family. They feel that breaking up and/or divorcing is not an option. Due to this, they are more likely to look for solutions to their problems rather than a quick escape route.


Another reason is the moral code they chose to live by. In other words, if they have an intimate relationship with God, then they are more often than not choosing to make morally sound decisions. Therefore, they avoid the traps many other couples fall into such as infidelity.


Finally, these relationships have a foundation based on love and giving versus selfishness and taking. They have a propensity to look to help and support their partner rather than trying to get something from him or her.


Many couples, however, experience times in their relationship when they need some assistance in learning how to talk with one another, parent together, improve their sex life, learn conflict resolution skills, or even how to fall in love again so they can reopen their heart to one another.
If you are experiencing any struggles in your relationship and would like to transform your relationship into a happy, loving, and thriving one please reach out to me here and together we will get you where you want to be!

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website

How To Win Her Back! Relationship Help For Men

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Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.


Regretting letting her go?  Do you find yourself thinking of her and wishing you could hold her again?  Are you thinking about ways to win her back but are unsure of what the best plan of action would be?


The fact is that relationships break up for many reasons – infidelity, too much fighting, lack of compatibility, miscommunication, misunderstandings, timing, etc. However, sometimes relationships end when they really did not have to.


If you want your woman back there is a way to reunite and start your relationship up again!


Relationship Help For Men Tip #1:


Put The Ball On The Tee!

Even if your break up was not messy, you may be unsure if she will want to hear from you. If this is the case, the first step is putting a little feeler out, which will give you some indication of where she is with you.


You can use a short simple text message or email in order to find out.


Be sure to start with something light and causal like, “Hi Mary I hope you are doing great!”  If she is at all interested in talking with you, she will respond most likely with something in kind.  It may be short and non-feeling so do not be alarmed, as she will be wondering why you are contacting her.


If she does not respond at all, she may be completely over you or she may be very hurt and angry and needs more from you, which brings us to the next step.


Relationship Help For Men Tip #2:


Setup The Shot!

Prepare yourself to take the next step by aligning your mind and heart with what you really want with her. Assuming that it is a reconciliation or at least a trial run back together, be clear on what you would like to achieve here.


If you would like to try again with her put in order all the reasons why this is a good idea. In addition, make a list of all the great things you shared together. Maybe you miss her smile, how smart, beautiful, and giving she is, perhaps you miss the friendship you had together and the ability to share your daily life with her. The important thing here is to actually do this because it sets you up for the next step.


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You are now ready to share with her what you have in mind. Begin by addressing the issues of why your relationship ended and the way it could be different now. Give her all the examples you came up with so this can be accomplished. Then share with her all of the reasons you miss her and want to win her back.


Again, depending on the exact circumstance of the breakup determines the amount of convincing that will need to be done.  Obviously, if you cheated on her that is going to take a whole lot more time to bring her around then if you had a miscommunication that ended things.


Relationship Help For Men Tip #4:


Follow Through!

There is nothing more convincing for a woman than consistent pursuit with follow through. If you really want her and your relationship back then the best thing you can do is pursue her and follow through on what you promised would be different.


If she is completely closed to the idea of you working things out again give it some time, perhaps a few more weeks or so and then try again. If she is still not willing, it will be time to face the reality of the situation and move forward in your life without her.


If she is willing to try again but is cautious to reignite the spark with you, be very patient and move slowly with her. This will help her ease back into the relationship at a pace that feels comfortable and safe for her.


Reuniting with the woman you care for or love can be absolutely amazing. Couples who choose to come back together, especially those able to move past what caused the break up in the first place, usually have a more solid commitment and happier relationship than ever before!





Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website

Relationship Help For Men: How To Make Her Feel Loved!


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Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer


Recently a lifelong male friend asked me, “What can I do to make a woman feel loved?” I was so taken back by his question, as I have always known him to be a very loving man. However, it was a great reminder of how often many men feel lost when it comes to women and relationships.


To answer his question as well as all of the men who keep scratching their heads wondering why she never seems happy with you, here are some great tips to help your relationship…


Relationship Help For Men Tip #1:

Repeat, Repeat, Repeat!


Be sure to tell her how you feel about her on a regular basis. Men tend to think once they tell a woman how they feel about her, she knows it, and that is all that is needed.  However, for most women, they like to hear how he is feeling about her and their relationship over and over because it makes her feel emotionally closer to him.


When a woman feels emotionally connected with her man, she is much more likely to feel loved and happy with their relationship.


For those men who have a hard time expressing their feelings this can create a breakdown in the relationship. For example, if he is falling for her but does not tell her, she will begin to question his intentions and then insecurities about their relationship can develop. For a married man with this issue, his wife may build resentments towards him because she feels he does not care enough about her to let her know how he feels for her on a regular basis.


Relationship Help For Men Tip #2:



When a woman feels that you see, know, and appreciate what sets her apart from all the rest, she feels loved by you.


How can a man do this with his woman? Simply, point out her special qualities and be sure to keep any sexual innuendos out of the list. Why? A woman wants to hear how amazing she is to you not how much you want to sleep with her.


Men often make this mistake thinking if they tell her how much he wants her sexually, she will know how much she means to him. This backfires on the man because she will end up feeling that you only want her for sex and not because she is a unique, awesome, amazing woman.


To be very clear here, a woman likes to hear that you desire her but if it is the primary message you are telling her it will turn her off and definitely not make her feel loved.


Relationship Help For Men Tip #3:

Show Her!


This tip may sound overly obvious but it is commonly missed by well-intentioned men.


How can you do this?


Simply use her likes and desires when making decisions or plans. For instance when you are planning a night out, be sure to pick restaurants or activities she would enjoy. Perhaps she loves boating and being on the water, planning a day like this will surely let her know how much you care.


However, be sure not to point out to her that you are doing this for her because that will take the meaning of it away. Instead, just go ahead and do it without the explanation as she will notice immediately on her own and feel very loved!



If you would like more help for your relationship please feel free to contact me here. I look very forward to working with you!




Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website

My Husband Makes Me Feel Bad About Myself!




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Sadly the phrase, “My Husband Makes Me Feel Bad About Myself” is one of the top searched by married women looking for help with their relationship on my site.


The fact is that countless women are quietly suffering everyday in their marriage.  How they feel about themselves and their ability to show up in all the other areas of their life is negatively impacted.  Their capacity to lovingly mother their children, efficiently perform daily activities, and successfully perform on the job becomes more and more difficult as their marital problems increase.


They look for immediate solutions hoping something will ease their pain and help their relationship problems. The professional coaching I provide gives woman an alternative to marriage counseling and provides these woman with the ability to…


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  1. Build A Healthy Self-Esteem So She Can Feel Good About Herself!
  2. Learn How To Take Care of Herself Emotionally, Physically, & Spiritually So She Is Not Depleted!
  3. Learn How To Set Healthy Boundaries With Her Husband, Children & All Relationships In Her Life To     Honor Herself!
  4. Learn How To Communicate With Her Husband So They Can Successfully Work Through Their Issues!
  5. Learn How To Peacefully Transition To A New Life If She Is Done With Her Marriage!
  6. Learn How To Be Happy & Create A Positive Fulfilling Life!



When a woman is struggling with a husband that demeans her and creates feelings of inadequacy, she can feel very alone in the world. She may be embarrassed to share what is going on in her relationship with friends and family so she carries this burden all by herself.


It is a painful and difficult experience but the good news is that it does not have to be. There is help and answers.

I have helped women in this situation for over fifteen years and I can help you too.

Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.

Simply contact me here 

I will join with you and guide you every step of the way.

You can feel and be happy again!



Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website

Why Men Throw Away Great Women!

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She has everything he is looking for; she is beautiful, smart, sexy, funny, successful, great to be with, and treats him like gold!!! She is the whole package, every man’s dream. As their relationship begins to develop they have great fun and laugh together, have great chemistry for one another, and even introduce their friends and family to one another. Everything is moving along well with an incredible future together on the horizon. Then a slight hiccup occurs and he runs away leaving her shocked, confused and extremely hurt.


Then she comes to me for relationship help asking, “Why did this happen? What did I do wrong? I thought he was falling in love with me? I never saw this coming…what did I miss? ”


The answers for her and all other amazing women who find themselves in this position can be simply narrowed down into these following few categories.



Relationship Help For Women #1:




Even though he may come across strong and confident, deep down inside he does not feel that ultimately he is enough to make her happy.


For instance, he may feel he is not good looking or in shape enough for her, he may feel his penis is not large enough, he may even feel that his receding or thinning hair will turn her off one day. Perhaps he is worried he is not successful enough or that what he makes financially will not be enough to provide for them as a couple or family.


Most of the time, these things are greatly hidden from the woman he is involved with and in many cases from himself. Yes! Often a man is unaware of these insecurities about himself until he meets and starts falling for a woman who is incredible.


Unfortunately, instead of looking at these areas of insecurity in himself as an opportunity to grow and evolve as a man, he runs away.  He generally will find a woman that is less intimidating for him so that he does not have to look at himself but can feel good around another woman who has less going for her.


Sadly, she is left having to guess what went wrong in the relationship and frequently starts blaming herself.



Relationship Help For Women #2:


Emotionally Closed!


He may be incredibly affectionate, communicate about his daily life, and appear to be listening as she shares deeper parts of herself with him but he is emotionally shut down.


What does this mean exactly?


Somewhere along his life, whether in childhood or adulthood, he experienced something that created the need for a protective wall to be built around him. Whether it was never feeling he lived up to his father’s expectations, some type of abuse, or being stuck in a miserable marriage,  the coping mechanism he developed was to turn off his feelings so he could be ok in the situation.


As with all coping mechanisms, they serve a purpose at the time. However, can end up causing harm down the road when not let go of after the initiating experience is over.


In the case of a man being emotionally closed, his ability to not feel or at least to not feel things deeply served him well. Yet, when it comes to allowing real love and a great relationship with an incredible woman, it does not serve him well at all. In fact it makes him bail.


You see, once he starts falling in love, these strong feelings for her trigger a fear and ignite his once useful coping mechanism. In other words, a warning signal or “mayday” message is sent to his brain causing him to pull back and then find reasons to throw her away. In almost every case, he is dong this on an unconscious level and has no idea what is happening.


He most likely will find a woman to have a casual “friends with benefits” relationship with so that he does not have to face nor deal with any strong feelings for her.


Again, this is sadly another missed opportunity for personal growth and to chance to experience real love.



Relationship Help For Women #3:


Bad Timing!


Yes, there is such thing as bad timing when it comes to relationships. You can have two wonderful people who would be great together, but the timing just is not right.


In this case, he is not necessarily throwing her away, he is passing on her, all she has to offer him, and a relationship because he is not ready.


The most common time this happens is when he is freshly out of a broken relationship or divorce. He may want the companionship and love but just in not healed from his relationship or marriage.


An honorable man recognizes this in himself and tells the woman know right up front or as soon as he himself figures it out.

The problem that arises is that the woman does not hear him or want to hear what he is saying and hangs in there hoping he will come around.  When this dynamic happens in relationships, more times than not he will eventually throw her away as a level of respect needed for a successful relationship has been lost.



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Learning that the great guy you thought was going to be “the one” falls into one or more of these categories may not end your pain but it does give you an understanding of what may have happened.


If you need more answers or guidance I would love to help you!

Reach me here and we will get started on healing the pain and attracting the right man for you!




Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website

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