Bree’s Valentine’s Day Secrets

Valentine’s Day… the hearts…the roses…the romantic sentiments…lots of love and good feelings…sounds nice right?  Then why do so many women end up disappointed and hurt and so many men end up frustrated and put out? The answer lies in understanding what men and women want from this holiday are very  different. Most men think Valentine’s Day is nothing more than a made up, pressure filled, obligatory holiday they wish never existed! Women, on the other hand, buy into this holiday hook, line, and sinker and want to experience being swept away in all of the potential romance.

First, understand that for a man, he does not need Valentine’s Day to feel loved and special by his woman. The most he is hoping for is to get through it unscathed and to make his woman happy. While on the other hand, a woman looks at what her man does as a measure of his love. Secondly, while a man wants to make his woman happy, especially on Valentine’s Day, most of the time, he has no idea what to do.  Ironically, his woman is looking for her man to come up with thoughtful and creative ways to make her feel loved and special.  The solution entails understanding these differences and developing a plan of action!

For the man who wants to make this Valentine’s Day a great one but has no idea what to do….try these simple steps.

Be observant and listen to your woman, she will drop hints as to what she would like for Valentine’s Day.  She may leave an open catalog open with a page turned down  for you to notice or she may be talking to a girlfriend and as you pass by mention to her friend that she would really like to go on a trip, see a play, or relax at a spa.  She may even say something like, I was passing by the jewelry store the other day and saw the prettiest necklace in the window.

If you are paying attention and listening and still cannot make heads or tails of it all, simple say to your woman something like, I love you so much and want to make Valentine’s as special as you are to me, please guide me in the right direction. It is important not to ask her what she wants directly because in her mind if she has to tell you, then it just does not count! Silly to you, I know, but true.

Finally, use everything you know about your woman and make your plans as special and unique as she is.

For the woman who wants to have a wonderful Valentine’s Day…try these simple steps.

Start by knowing that most men and probably yours has no clue what to do but wants to make you happy.
Guide your man with ideas on things you would really like to experience on Valentine’s Day.
Ask him what would make him feel loved and special. His answer will  most likely be, I don’t need anything or Don’t do anything for me. Listen and then hear the real message, which is he really wants you to think he is the greatest guy in the world and that you love him.
In the end, Valentine’s Day is about love. When we understand one another, how you express your love can be the really fun and wonderful part you both will enjoy!

Start by knowing that most men and probably yours has no clue what to do but wants to make you happy.
Guide your man with ideas on things you would really like to experience on Valentine’s Day.
Ask him what would make him feel loved and special. His answer will  most likely be, I don’t need anything or Don’t do anything for me. Listen and then hear the real message, which is he really wants you to think he is the greatest guy in the world and that you love him.
In the end, Valentine’s Day is about love. When we understand one another, how you express your love can be the really fun and wonderful part you both will enjoy!

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