Need Marriage Rejuvenation?
Vowing to love, honor, and cherish one another each day for the rest of your life; did you ever imagine there would be a day to come that you would have to “work” to feel the love again?
Brides and groom do not walk down the aisle thinking, “I cannot wait until loving this person becomes work!” Conversely, their ideology before joining in matrimony consists of believing their lives will be better together rather than than apart. For that reason, how do couples get from newlywed bliss to requiring effort to rediscover the love they have for each other?
The simple answer is life happens!
This life journey is filled with daily life stressors such as finances, rearing children, career/work, health issues, family, friends, and work relationships. Quite frankly, life bombards married couples with thousands of ways to stop feeling the love and focus on outside “things.”
Now, it definitely helps to understand how you got into this place with your marriage but that does not ultimately solve the problem. What does solve it is what I like to call, “a pro-active plan of action!” This is a realistic, goal-oriented, definite plan of action that is employed every day in your marriage.
When I work with my married couples I devise a unique pro-active plan of action per their specific personalities, love languages, and lifestyle. I create this plan, which produces their marriage “love tank” to be filled back up so each can feel the love for the other again.
Sound great? It is!
Being able to help husbands and wives feel the love for one another is one of the most rewarding parts of my work. Watching a couple who were distant, fighting, resentful, or had given up fall in love again and be happily married is astounding. I hope that you are getting that this can be done! All it takes is recognition of the problem and a solid plan put into action to make it occur. You can rejuvenate your marriage and feel like a newlywed again.
Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. is a Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert, Acclaimed Life & Relationship Coach, and Author of the relationship and self-help books It’s That Simple! for men & women.
Bree has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW, FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.
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