Why Does He Call Me A Nag?
Frequently, the biggest error a woman makes in her relationship is what men refer to as nagging. The relationship problems that stem from this are simply because a woman does not consider it nagging and the man does.
When a woman looks to her partner to get something accomplished she will request that of him. Generally what occurs next is that the man categorizes and files it in his brain as a “need to do it immediately task” or “this can wait, I will get to it task.”
However, he does not communicate this to her and she believes it will be taken care of immediately. When this does not happen she will ask repeatedly until she becomes angry and frustrated with him. Do you recognize this dynamic within your relationship?
If so, there is hope! Below are relationship help advice tips to help solve this problem.
That means to listen to your partner. Instead of “hearing” what you want to hear, pay attention to what he is telling you. Is he stressed at work? Is he overwhelmed with home projects? Are the kids draining his energy?
By taking a proactive stance with her listening skills, a woman can change this common relationship problem in no time.
What do I mean by this? It’s simple, instead of listening for what you want to hear, you become objective and listen to what he is actually telling you.
For example, if he is in the middle of a massive project at work and under a tremendous amount of stress, not asking him to fix the garage door until he is on more stable ground takes care of it.
The paradoxical part of this relationship problem is when effective communication skills are used it never exists.
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