Top 5 Questions About Relationships Men & Women Ask
As a relationship expert I am often asked, “Bree what are the most common questions about relationships men and women ask you?”
Here is the list of the 5 most common relationship questions and my relationship help answers:
1. Why Are Relationships So Hard?
Relationships do not have to be hard! Men and women who experience a “hard” relationship are doing so because they either are extremely incompatible and/or do not have the right relationship help skills. However, in most cases, this can be fixed. When the two people in the relationship have the love and desire to make it work, they can. How can I be so sure? Simply stated because I have witnessed it time and again with the couples I have worked with. Those that want it to work, do what it takes and make it happen.
2. Why Doesn’t He Listen To Me?
He is listening, however, she is not feeling heard. This is one of the biggest breakdowns in communication with men and women. They each are talking and trying to listen but the messages are not being delivered or received correctly. That is the main reason I put in the It’s That Simple! book for men and It’s That Simple! book for women, a step-by-step guide on how to effectively communicate with one another. When couples learn how to talk and listen to one another, their relationship moves past the frustration, anger, and resentments into a understanding, peaceful, and a happy relationship.
3. Why Is She Never Happy With Anything I Do?
Generally, because what you are doing and what she is expecting are two different things. She is looking for you to either say or do things that you are unaware of or are not capable of doing. In this case, it is vital to talk about each other’s feelings and expectations openly and authentically with one another.
4. How Often Do Most Married Couples Have Sex?
This depends on the length of time the couple has been married. In the honeymoon phase it can be several times a day. Then as the marriage matures, the love deepens, and they have children the amount of sex they have lessens. The average is around two to three times a week. However, for some couples, especially when their children are small, it can be once or twice a month. Later in life, the sex can stop all together, however, the couple and their marriage can still be very happy. If there are any signs of a low libido or high levels of stress this all natural product can really help heal that and restore a healthy sex life for a couple.
5. Should I Stay Or Leave This Relationship?
Deciding to remain in a relationship or move on is a very important one depending on many factors. I always advise to try everything possible first, including getting professional relationship help before deciding to end a relationship. Frequently, issues that are creating feelings of wanting to go can easily be addressed and healed with the help of a relationship professional. If you are experiencing this and need some help reach me here.
Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. is a Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert, Acclaimed Life & Relationship Coach, and Author of the relationship and self-help books It’s That Simple! for men & women.
Bree has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW, FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.
Bree has Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with men, women, and couples.
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