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Vowing to love, honor, and cherish one another each day for the rest of your life; did you ever imagine there would be a day to come that you would have to “work” to feel the love again?
Brides and groom do not walk down the aisle thinking, “I cannot wait until loving this person becomes work!” Conversely, their ideology before joining in matrimony consists of believing their lives will be better together rather than than apart. For that reason, how do couples get from newlywed bliss to requiring effort to rediscover the love they have for each other?
The simple answer is life happens!
This life journey is filled with daily life stressors such as finances, rearing children, career/work, health issues, family, friends, and work relationships. Quite frankly, life bombards married couples with thousands of ways to stop feeling the love and focus on outside “things.”
Now, it definitely helps to understand how you got into this place with your marriage but that does not ultimately solve the problem. What does solve it is what I like to call, “a pro-active plan of action!” This is a realistic, goal-oriented, definite plan of action that is employed every day in your marriage.
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When I work with my married couples I devise a unique pro-active plan of action per their specific personalities, love languages, and lifestyle. I create this plan, which produces their marriage “love tank” to be filled back up so each can feel the love for the other again.
Sound great? It is!
Being able to help husbands and wives feel the love for one another is one of the most rewarding parts of my work. Watching a couple who were distant, fighting, resentful, or had given up fall in love again and be happily married is astounding. I hope that you are getting that this can be done! All it takes is recognition of the problem and a solid plan put into action to make it occur. You can rejuvenate your marriage and feel like a newlywed again.
Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. is a Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert, Acclaimed Life & Relationship Coach, and Author of the relationship and self-help books It’s That Simple! for men & women.
Bree has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW, FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.
Bree has Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over 20 years of clinical experience working with men, women, and couples.
For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/
God First-Better Marriage?
From where I stand, as someone who has worked with couples for over fifteen years, the answer is a resounding yes!
The couples, whom place God at the Center and Head of their marriage, tend to handle life stressors more effectively. They are more likely to process through these pressures, which can often tear a marriage apart, rather than attack one another because of them. For example, financial strains are handled with faith, prayer, and a joining together rather than a break down in the marriage.
Now, this is not to say faith-centered marriages will not face the same difficulties as non-faith centered marriages, it just means they handle it differently. So the question we need to look at is “Why?”
What makes these couples different and more capable of protecting their marriage?
The primary reason is their commitment to their faith and their marriage. They are not the type of couple who immediately thinks of divorce as an option when times get tough. Instead, they look for ways to move through the troubling times holding onto their commitment to one another and God. This in our disposable, instant gratification, “what is in it for me?” centered culture is amazing. These couples rise above the social norm and find a way to make it work by employing a “whatever it takes attitude.”
The second main reason is their willingness to work on things. Again, they are not looking to end things as an option so being willing to find the solution becomes much easier and applicable. With their willingness comes a desire to “own” their mistakes or part in what is troubling the marriage. Rather than pointing the finger and blaming, they seek to find out how they can improve themselves and their marriage.
Coming in as the third key reason is best described by the word sacredness. These couples view their vows and commitment of marriage to one another with God as a holy act, not to be taken lightly. This means when the winds, rain, and storms of life come they hold tightly to their belief in the sanctity of marriage as well as their faith in God’s guidance, care, and Love to help them through.
When I work with these couples, they are eager to do what it takes to get through their problems and develop a happy marriage. Instead of fighting the healing process, they embrace it, which benefits them greatly by speeding it up and producing higher success rates!
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How Can I Stop Fighting With My Husband? Help From A Relationship Expert!
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Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.
Women come to me all the time asking, “How can I stop fighting with my husband?” This is then usually followed by something like, “He drives me crazy I don’t know what to do!”
Does this sound familiar to you?
First, I want to tell you there is great news for you.You are not alone and solving this problem is very possible! Just by hearing that there is a solution should bring immediate relief to you.
However, if you and your husband are fighting so much that you cannot even imagine this is true, rest assured, it is. I have helped couples for over fifteen years find their way back from a very destructive place to a loving relationship.
How?
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First, I start by helping you understand the real reason you are so angry with your husband. What I mean is that I work with you to uncover the deeper place where the anger started that has created the pattern of fighting in your marriage. In every marriage where there is fighting occurring there is a undiscovered reason why. I can promise you it is not about him not doing enough to help you out around the house! When the real culprit is figured out, fixing it becomes very simple.
Second, I walk you through a healing and letting go process to free you of these negative and toxic emotions that affect you physically, mentally and spiritually. When a woman allows these types of harmful emotions to course through her body and be present in her life, she is not living at her highest self. Instead, she is living in a suffering mode just trying to make it through each day…this is not a way to live nor how marriage is suppose to be.
Finally, I teach you how to properly identify and then express your feelings so your husband can hear and understand what you are telling him. This may sound over simplified but it is not. I hope you heard the key word in that last sentence…”can.”
You see, most of the time the husband wants to understand but is not able because his wife is telling him in a way he cannot comprehend. This is not to say the wife is at fault by any means. However, when she learns how to present what she is thinking and how she is feeling in a way he understands, amazing healing occurs in their relationship.
In other words, when a woman learns the secrets to talking with her husband, she has the keys to a successful marriage in the palm of her hand!
If you would like to learn how to stop fighting with your husband and transform your marriage into a healthy and loving one, I will help you!
Contact me here and we will get started right away!
For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
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