Dear AJ,
The first thing to do is to share with your wife in a calm and loving way how much you love her and that you are willing to do whatever it takes to work things out.

If she is at the point of wanting a divorce, things have gotten to a very serious and difficult place. Without knowing what the fights or issues are about exactly, I am assuming they are the common one's most married couples face—finances, infidelity, parenting issues, loss of physical and emotional intimacy, and a lack of effective communication.

As a marriage advocate, I always encourage all of the couples I work with to try everything before ending their relationship. I have a successful step-by-step process that helps couples work through their problems, fall in love again, and create a healthy and happy marriage.

People look to a divorce because everything they have tried has not worked and they are feeling frustrated, angry, overwhelmed and worn out. They just want out of the pain and believe that divorce is the only way.

The great news is that there is a better way!

You can reach me at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. or 772-223-87847. AJ, I look forward to helping you and your wife!