Dear Maria,
Losing the spark or passion in a relationship is a very common issue many couples face. The first step is to communicate with your partner your desire to reignite the passion. Often, just by sharing with your partner your desire to do so will get the passion started. The second step is to look for little ways to incorporate the passion back into your everyday life together. For example, put a little sticky note that says something like, "You are so hot" or " I can't wait to be in your arms" in a place he will find it when he least expects it. Another idea is to give him an unexpected shoulder massage just because without the expectation of it leading to anything else. As you continue to put little romantic gestures back into your everyday life, the passion will begin to grow again. You can then take it to the next level where you can surprise him with more physically intimate situations like greeting him at the door wrapped in only a bow!