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How can I fix my husband? “Linda”

Dear “Linda”:


To answer this question, the place to start is opening your mind up to the possibility that you cannot “fix” anyone.  It is allowing yourself to come to the understanding that there is not another person alive that you can “fix”.  In fact, placing  your efforts on “fixing” needs not to be with your spouse, but with you! You are truly the only person who you can “fix”.  So often we look to “fix” the other person because it keeps us from looking at ourselves.  If we keep our attention on what is wrong with the other person, we get to avoid taking stock in what areas in ourselves need healing.  So Linda, the next time you are tempted to “fix” your husband, take a moment and ask yourself, “What can I do to better who I am?”

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