Dear 'LC':
Run! Immediately run as fast as you can to get away from him. I am usually not so forceful with my answers. However, in the complete online question you submitted, I read too many troubling facets. You sound like a sweet young lady. Please know that you deserve

a young man who will treat you with the utmost kindness and respect. The key to having this is two-fold. First, you must believe you deserve it. Secondly, deep down inside, you must feel worthy of having it. Any guy who is doing what he is doing is playing horrible head games. You really do not need to take the time to figure out why?just know what he is doing is not healthy and  remove him from your life.