Dear Susanna,

I hear your pain. Let me reassure you that by questioning why the normal level of communication was not continuing, does not translate into you calling him a liar.  It sounds to me as if he took an out when he saw one.  It is vital to pay close attention to a man's actions as it reveals to you what is really going on. In addition, it is vital to pay attention to your own instincts when you are feeling that something is not quite right.  Trust yourself!  As far as wanting him back,

we can never force someone to be with us.  If he is not willing to continue in the relationship, the healthiest thing you can do is to allow yourself to go through the grieving process.  This means accepting the ending of the relationship and letting go of the idea or "picture" you have of your future together. This is so very painful to do, however, if someone is not willing to continue in the relationship, there is nothing more you can do.  Focus on taking care of yourself emotionally and honoring yourself.  You deserve to be with a man who loves you and honors you, but you must do this for yourself first, to really find it in a partner.