Dear "Me",

I understand your mixed feelings. You truly love your boyfriend, however, he is not moving forward with you in your relationship. The bottom line is that his actions are speaking loudly. His enmeshment with his wife and children is a clear indicator that he has not emotionally let go of his family. He clearly is not ready to let go or maybe is not capable at this time.  In these types of situations, it is best to make a clear decision from your intellect instead of your emotions.  Your intellect will guide you to the decision that will lead you to the life you really want.