My long distance boyfriend is a doctor and always busy. Sometimes days go by without us talking should I break up with him?
Dear Leela,
Unless your boyfriend is an ER doctor, who works 24-hour shifts back to back, there is no reason you should not be speaking daily. Long distance relationships are very difficult and require extra special care to keep the bond and intimacy strong. For all long-distance relationships, I recommend having an "end plan." For instance,
My four-year boyfriend is arguing with me and told me he needs to be alone and he can't be mine due my religion. I really love him please help!
Dear Arahzoo,
I am not sure of your nationality and do not want to step on any specific cultural toes, but it sounds as if your boyfriend wants to end the relationship with you. He is blaming it on your religion but it sounds as if that is just an easy excuse to get out of the relationship.
As well, his actions on Facebook
This guy asked me out but in front of his friends he acts like he dislikes me and when we are alone he acts as though he loves me. What should I do?
Dear 'LC':
Run! Immediately run as fast as you can to get away from him. I am usually not so forceful with my answers. However, in the complete online question you submitted, I read too many troubling facets. You sound like a sweet young lady. Please know that you deserve
I cheated last year but reconciled with my wife. Her daughter doesn't like me and it's caused many problems. We were in counseling, but she will not go now. What can I do?
Dear Rick,
I can hear your frustration and fears about your marriage. When one partner shuts the other one out, it limits the ability of the relationship to heal and move forward. However, I would recommend at this point that you clearly communicate