Relationship Help Advice From Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.

Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.

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Many men and women miss one very important factor in their relationship-its frailty. This is so important for people to understand for if they do not, they will treat one another and their relationship in such a ways that causes harm and possible irreparable damage.

I liken relationships to living organisms. They need “food” and “water,” which are attention, care, and nurturing in order to thrive. When these elements are not present the relationship, just like any living organism, will eventually die.

Here are the top five ways people “forget” how fragile their relationship is.

Relationship Help Advice From Relationship Expert Bree #1:

Getting Too Comfortable! It is human nature to get used to things that we already have. This can range anywhere from clean air and indoor plumbing to money and a relationship. In order for a relationship to thrive both partners must keep it fresh. This occurs when each is consciously aware of how blessed they are to have one another. They then speak and behave in ways that is motivated by this gratitude.

Relationship Help Advice From Relationship Expert Bree #2:

Taking For Granted! When partners take one another for granted they move past the too comfortable stage right into complete forgetfulness! This is most commonly seen in relationships when one or both partners overlook the kindness, love, and care the other has and is giving. A good example of this is when a husband stops by the dry cleaners on the way home after a difficult day because he knows his wife needs her dress for an event that evening. When he gets home, she barley addresses him or the thoughtful and kind act of love he did for her.

Relationship Help Advice From Relationship Expert Bree #3:

Forgetting The Specialness in One Another! Everyone is special in his or her own right. We each have amazingly unique qualities that make us who we are. In the beginning of a new relationship that is all that is seen—the awesomeness of the other person. However, when not kept as a focus many couples will lose sight of one another’s incredibleness and pay more attention to their flaws.

Relationship Help Advice From Relationship Expert Bree #4:

Devaluing Each Other As A Priority!  A priority means that something or someone is ranked highly in terms of importance. As time passes, many couples forget to continue to rank one another and their relationship as a top priority. Instead, life stressors, career, children, and responsibilities are allowed to take over pushing their partner and relationship down on the priority list.

Relationship Help Advice From Relationship Expert Bree #5:

Allowing Boredom To Set In!  Keeping life together interesting, exciting, and entertaining is important in keeping a relationship healthy and happy. When the feeling of boredom enters a relationship many will start to blame one another and believe it is their partner that is boring instead of what has happened to the relationship.

Remembering the specialness in one another, treating each other with kindness, care, and love and keeping it fresh is a magnificent recipe for having a great and lasting relationship!

Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert, Acclaimed Relationship & Life Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. holds a Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling, has over fifteen years of clinical experience working with individuals and couples, and has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

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