Relationship Help For Men: How To Make Her Feel Loved!
Recently a lifelong male friend asked me, “What can I do to make a woman feel loved?” I was so taken back by his question, as I have always known him to be a very loving man. However, it was a great reminder of how often many men feel lost when it comes to women and relationships.
To answer his question as well as all of the men who keep scratching their heads wondering why she never seems happy with you, here are some great tips to help your relationship…
Repeat, Repeat, Repeat!
Be sure to tell her how you feel about her on a regular basis. Men tend to think once they tell a woman how they feel about her, she knows it, and that is all that is needed. However, for most women, they like to hear how he is feeling about her and their relationship over and over because it makes her feel emotionally closer to him.
When a woman feels emotionally connected with her man, she is much more likely to feel loved and happy with their relationship.
For those men who have a hard time expressing their feelings this can create a breakdown in the relationship. For example, if he is falling for her but does not tell her, she will begin to question his intentions and then insecurities about their relationship can develop. For a married man with this issue, his wife may build resentments towards him because she feels he does not care enough about her to let her know how he feels for her on a regular basis.
When a woman feels that you see, know, and appreciate what sets her apart from all the rest, she feels loved by you.
How can a man do this with his woman? Simply, point out her special qualities and be sure to keep any sexual innuendos out of the list. Why? A woman wants to hear how amazing she is to you not how much you want to sleep with her.
Men often make this mistake thinking if they tell her how much he wants her sexually, she will know how much she means to him. This backfires on the man because she will end up feeling that you only want her for sex and not because she is a unique, awesome, amazing woman.
To be very clear here, a woman likes to hear that you desire her but if it is the primary message you are telling her it will turn her off and definitely not make her feel loved.
This tip may sound overly obvious but it is commonly missed by well-intentioned men.
How can you do this?
Simply use her likes and desires when making decisions or plans. For instance when you are planning a night out, be sure to pick restaurants or activities she would enjoy. Perhaps she loves boating and being on the water, planning a day like this will surely let her know how much you care.
However, be sure not to point out to her that you are doing this for her because that will take the meaning of it away. Instead, just go ahead and do it without the explanation as she will notice immediately on her own and feel very loved!
If you would like more help for your relationship please feel free to contact me here. I look very forward to working with you!
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