Why Can’t He Understand Me?
As men and women talk with one another, sometimes it can feel as if we are speaking foreign languages to one another. By far one of the greatest pitfalls in any relationship is a lack of effective communication.
The truth of the matter is that when we do not know how to talk with our partner, issues can arise in the relationship. One of the top reasons people come to me for relationship help is because they cannot figure out a way to properly speak with each other without ending up frustrated or angry.
The top complaint I hear from women with this is that “He doesn’t understand me!” In other words, she is telling me that she does not feel heard by her man. However, the bigger picture usually involves her not sharing with him in a way that he can relate to.
On the other hand, the number one grievance I hear form men is, “She is always nagging me and never happy!” What he is really saying is that he is frustrated and angry that what he is doing is not enough for her. Again, if we stand back and look at the complete picture, it generally has to do with him not fully communicating with her, which leaves her repeating herself.
I offer two ways to get the relationship help men and women need. The first is through the It’s That Simple! books. Each book is gender specific and provides the help, skills, and direction necessary to have a successful relationship.
The second is with working directly with me via telephone sessions. During these sessions, I walk my clients through a personalized program designed specially to help them with their particular relationship needs. I help people with communication to healing from an infidelity and everything in between.
If I can help you please feel free to contact me here.
Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. is a Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert, Acclaimed Life & Relationship Coach, and Author of the relationship and self-help books It’s That Simple! for men & women.
Bree has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW, FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.
Bree has Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with men, women, and couples.
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