Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Helps Men
Men today are finding it harder and harder to make their relationship work. This leaves most of these men feeling frustrated, angry and lost all of which can lead to wanting to give up and walk away.
Of course, this is the worst thing for the relationship. However, what else is a man to do when he has tried everything and nothing is working?
A woman will tell you what she wants from you. Generally, she will not provide this valuable information directly though.
Why? Because she feels that if you loved her, you would know what she wants and needs from you.
That makes no sense to you as a man right? Well, that is why you must listen to her when she is sharing her ideas, thoughts, and feelings with you. She is communicating to you who she is and what she desires. For instance, if she drags you to go see a romantic comedy movie and tells you how much she loved it, she is telling you she wants more romance from you. Another example would be if she describes her friend’s husband and what he is doing for his wife, she is telling you this so you will do it as well.
This is very frustrating to men because they do not understand why a woman will not just tell them what they want.
The fact is that you cannot change how a woman communicates but you can learn how to decipher it!
Once you have “heard” what your woman is looking for from you, even if it is a small thing go ahead and do it on a consistent basis. The key word here is consistent. Women look for consistency and not just a one-time action.
For example, if you have heard that your woman wants more help around the house or with the children, then every day make a point of doing at least one thing to help her out. After doing this ask her if there is anything else she would like for you to help her with and tell her you want to be supportive to her in anyway she needs. She will melt when she hears this!
A woman will continually change what she is looking for from you as you meet her current desires. I know this can be even more frustrating than her not telling you directly what she wants but it is true.
She is not doing this to be difficult or to keep you guessing, she is doing it because she is evolving every day. Her ideas, dreams, and desires change as she does so keeping up with her is key.
It really just takes a minimal effort once you understand this concept—she wants you to know her and provide for her what she needs without telling you straightforwardly. Once this really sinks in, you will be empowered because you know the secret-to listen and act on a consistent basis.
A relationship should never be a one-way street. Just as she has things she wants to receive from you, the opposite is true.
What you desire from her is vital information that she needs to know and act on as well. Here is the tricky part, most men do not understand what they want or if they do, do not communicate it.
Therefore, you must understand what you would like to receive from her and tell her. For example, if you want Sunday afternoon to yourself to watch football, you need to share that information with her. Let her know how important it is for you to have this downtime and how much it means to you when she allows that to happen.
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Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW, FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post. Bree has Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with men, women, and couples.
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