Need Relationship Help To Save Your Relationship?
In my experience many men and women in relationships that is not working feel there is no hope when that is not the case at all. Outside some specific situations of abuse or addiction, there is always a way to repair and rebuild a relationship.
Once a couple understands that there is help available to them they can breathe a sigh of relief and move on towards healing their relationship!
Determine The Level Of Help Needed!
There are many different forms of help a couple can seek out. The first step is to figure out what condition their relationship is currently in.
This step entails taking an honest look at the levels of communication, emotional and physical intimacy, and overall wellbeing the relationship is experiencing.
This can more easily be done if you use this quick grading scale from 0-10. On this scale, zero represents a complete and total break down in the relationship while ten corresponds to the ultimate dream relationship. Take a moment and rate your relationship now.
Six & Above Rating!
For those relationships operating at a six or higher level turning towards a relationship help book is a great first step.
When writing the It’s That Simple! books for couples I had this type of relationship in mind. This couple has the typical problems most relationships or marriages are facing. They still love one another but just are not as happy as they use to be. Their communication has broken down and there may be some fighting going on. Overall, they are functioning but could be so much more incredibly happy together.
If this is where your relationship is at, I highly recommend getting these books for you and your partner now:
Zero To Five Rating!
If your relationship is located anywhere on the lower part of the scale you most likely need more intense help.
At this point, bringing in a professional is highly recommended.
There are many types of relationship experts, coaches, and therapist available. Be sure to do your due diligence and research their background and credentials first. After making initial contact with the professional be sure you feel comfortable and are a good fit. This is very important to ensure a higher level of success in repairing your relationship.
When I first speak with an individual or couple who is looking for help, we go through what it is they are having trouble with, how I work with my clients, and if working together will be what is best for them. I work with clients all over the country via the phone or Skype, which allows me to help many different individuals and couples.
Seeking help and following through with it are two different things completely. Once you have established where your relationship is and what type of help you need, it is vital to take the next steps.
These steps include learning and applying the information and tools gained through either the book or professional each day in your relationship.
Those couples who actively make the changes on a consistent basis are the ones who experience the highest level of success!
Considered to be the Best Relationship & Life Coach and Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW, FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post. She has a Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with individuals and couples.
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