Best Relationship Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Helps Couples After An Infidelity!
Many people believe that a relationship cannot survive an infidelity. This is an erroneous belief because the fact is that a relationship can make it through as long as the couple has the right tools and willingness to do so.
An infidelity occurs for many reasons and there is not one cookie cutter answer to why. However, there is a way to get past it, heal the relationship, and become even stronger because of it. I have helped many men and women discover why the infidelity occurred and then how to rebuild their relationship. This process is not an easy one as it involves an incredible amount of emotional pain that must be directly addressed and healed. However, for those couples who want to keep their relationship together the good news is they can!
Understanding Why It Happened!
It is very important for a couple to become clear on why one or both partners decided to step outside the boundaries of their committed relationship. I am able to work with my clients on this step only if when they are willing to be honest with themselves and their partner. Once the reason is exposed then the actual healing from the infidelity begins. A couple will experience great relief at this stage in the process along with a glimmer of hope that they can make it.
Repairing The Trust!
Trust in a relationship is one of the fundamental key elements that must be present for the relationship to thrive. When an infidelity has occurred rebuilding the trust is vital. This part of the healing process is very individual for each couple. Some are able to start trusting quickly while others take much longer. Again the ability for the couple to successfully rebuild the trust has everything to do with the willingness on the part of the partners to do what it takes to make that happen.
Avoiding The Trouble Spots!
Once a couple understands why the infidelity happened, they are well equipped with the information needed to make sure it never does again. In most cases, there are pre-warning signs, which came about before the infidelity actually took place. When couples are made aware of what to pay attention too, they are better able to ensure the sanctity of their commitment to one another.
When I am working with a couple who are in this healing process they will get to the point when the emotional pain subsides and they are ready to begin again. This step is quite enjoyable for the couple because they experience the rediscovering of one another and the love they have for each other all over again. This is the time the couple actually falls in love again!
Once the relationship has gone through the healing stages and is in a new place, I help them make a plan of action to ensure their relationship continues to grow and flourish. They are given the information, tools, and guidance to keep their relationship happy and healthy for the long term!
Considered to be the Best Relationship Coach and Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW, FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post. She has a Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with individuals and couples.
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