Monthly Archives: March 2013
Relationship Advice & Help For Men
Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer
Having a great relationship with your woman does not have to be difficult or complicated. Really, I promise! When you have the right information and tools making her happy is simple!
You may be thinking, “Are you crazy? No matter what I do, she is never happy! I have tried everything and nothing works!” Believe me I have heard this a lot from the men I have worked with over the years. It is one of the top frustrations men experience in relationships.
The wonderful news is that this is easily addressed and fixed. How?
The key is gaining an understanding of what your woman really wants and communicating effectively with her.
Sounds easy right?
Then why do so many relationships need help in this area? Simply because many men just do not know how to do this. It has nothing to do with being a good guy or not, it has everything to do with having the inside scoop into women and what they want from a man.
I work directly with men to help them with their relationship to get instant and positive results. How ? I meet and talk with you over the phone once a week guiding you each step of the way.
Relationship Advice & Help For Men
- I translate for you what she is saying to what she really means.
- I teach you how to meet her needs and desires in a way that makes you feel good too.
- I show you how to repair any damage that has occurred and have a great relationship.
- I direct you in how to talk with her so you can eliminate misunderstandings, hurt feelings and nagging.
Yes, it is true that relationships take effort but it does not have to be hard work. Just by learning a few simple tools, you can turn your whole relationship around quickly and easily.
Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. is a Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert, Acclaimed Life & Relationship Coach, and Author of the relationship and self-help books It’s That Simple! for men & women.
Bree has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW, FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.
Bree has Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with men, women, and couples.
For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/
Relationship Expert Help For Couples!
Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer
As a relationship expert, I am often approached for interviews to provide answers and help about problems couples are facing. These topics range everywhere from “Dealing with financial issues” to “Who gets the ring once the engagement is called off?”
Over the last fifteen years with my work as a mental health counselor, relationship expert and coach, I have found that most couples end up dealing with the same basic issues. However, they act out these issues in different forms.
What does that mean?
For example, one couple may say they “can’t talk to each other anymore” while another would say they “are not getting along.” The first couple may describe, in detail, how they are no longer talking while the second couple will recant story after story of how badly they are not getting along. Each of these couples has the same issue…poor communication and relationship skills.
When I work with an individual or couple as a relationship expert and coach, I teach and guide them through the process of identifying what the exact issue is and how to resolve it. Most of the time, these men and women feel they have insurmountable relationship problems only to find out that with the skills they learn they can save and transform their relationship.
Relationship Help Advice
Some of the most common problems couples in a relationship face and need help with are:
- Losing respect for one another.
- Treating one another with contempt.
- Fighting when it is just as easy to talk with one another.
- Allowing the emotional closeness they once shared to fade.
- Not keeping their sex life thriving.
- Permitting life stressors to break down their relationship.
One of the best parts of being a relationship expert is getting to share with those who come to me for help that it is possible to fix their problems and have a happy relationship again! If you would like some help with your relationship you can reach me here.
Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. is a Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert, Acclaimed Life & Relationship Coach, and Author of the relationship and self-help books It’s That Simple! for men & women.
Bree has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW, FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.
Bree has Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with men, women, and couples.
For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/
Long Distance Relationship Help Advice
Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer
With the more and more people meeting and dating online, long distance relationships are definitely on the rise. In the beginning, exchanging emails, moving onto phone calls, and then making plans to meet is filled with wonderful excitement. However, as the relationship progresses many couples face problems they need help solving.
Relationship Help Advice for Long Distance Relationships
#1 Steady Lines Of Communication!
It is vital for a couple who are not living in the same area to keep their level of communication going at a high level. This means that talking, video chatting, texting, and/or emailing need to be done at least once, preferably more, on a daily basis.
Relationship Help Advice for Long Distance Relationships
#2 Romance One Another!
While communicating be sure to add some romance into the mix. Share with your special someone how important they are to you, how the thought of them brightens your day, and how happy you are to have them in your life.
Send love notes and little tokens of your feelings for them so when they least expect it, they will receive a romantic surprise package in the mail.
Relationship Help Advice for Long Distance Relationships
#3 Always Have A Plan!
Always make a plan for the next time to see one another. Even if you cannot arrange a time to see each other for a month or two, having a set plan will help keep each of you moving forward in the same direction in your relationship.
Relationship Help Advice for Long Distance Relationships
#4 Set A Time Frame!
Since keeping a long distance relationship going for the long haul is extremely difficult, it is important to have a mutually set time frame to work with. For instance, you each agree that after a year of dating, you will talk about how you can join your lives together on a permanent basis. This will help keep the end goal in sight and keep your relationship on the right track.
Relationship Help Advice for Long Distance Relationships
#5 Make The Most Of It!
In any relationship there will be parts that take effort and work. In long distance relationships, the fact that you cannot see, touch, interact, and have fun together on a regular basis is a major part that will need to be worked through. Therefore, on those times that you are together, making the very most of your time together is vital. Put all your daily life stressors aside, focus on one another, and do things that are mutually enjoyable.
Even though long distance relationships are hard they can be done and turn into a life-time relationship.
Need more relationship help? Reach me here.
Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. is a Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert, Acclaimed Life & Relationship Coach, and Author of the relationship and self-help books It’s That Simple! for men & women.
Bree has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW, FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.
Bree has Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with men, women, and couples.
For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/
New Relationship Advice & Help!
A new relationship can be intoxicating! The rush of warm and wonderful emotions along with the hope and excitement can take your breath away. However, the beginning of a relationship is a fragile time that can be ruined with even a simple mistake. Therefore, it is best to follow these tips to help turn your new relationship into a lasting one!
Relationship Expert Advice & Help: #1
Slow Down!
The temptation to rush into a new relationship is a mistake many unknowingly make. Why? Because in the beginning, everything feels so great due to the chemicals and hormones being released in the brain. It is a time when the other person “appears” absolutely perfect in every way.
However, this is one of the reasons many new couples fizzle out.
You see, when the brain chemicals settle down and the new partner is “seen” with realistic eyes, many are left disappointed by the harsh reality and run away from the relationship.
Therefore, taking your time and understanding that each person has his or her own individual quirks, idiosyncrasies, and even baggage is important in avoiding the buyer’s remorse part of a new relationship.
Relationship Expert Advice & Help: #2
Establish Boundaries!
During the beginning stages of a relationship it is very important to talk through and understand one another’s personal boundaries. This includes everything from private time to what feels comfortable during physical intimacy.
Establishing boundaries early on helps create and build trust in the relationship. As the relationship continues while honoring these boundaries a deeper bond is formed between the partners. Each partner will feel respected and honored by the other knowing they can count on and trust their partner to take very special care of them.
Relationship Expert Advice & Help: #3
Talk, Talk, Talk!
Communicate about absolutely everything! Share with one another your hopes, dreams, fears, beliefs, views, and opinions on subjects across the board. This is a great way to discern where you are compatible and where compromise will be necessary down the road.
For instance, if you discover your new partner wants children in five years but you want them immediately. This type of gap will need to be mutually bridged or it will end up causing issues in the relationship.
Relationship Expert Advice & Help: #4
Line Up Your Similarities!
Couples who enjoy one another’s company and similar activities have a much easier time making it through the bumps in the road a relationship may experience.
Therefore, make a list of all the things you mutually enjoy and start doing them! This also helps form a stronger bond as you share in and build fond memories together.
Relationship Expert Advice & Help: #5
Address Problems Immediately!
A little irritant can turn into a large problem when it is ignored and swept under the rug. Many times men and women are fearful of bringing up things that they feel may be an issue. The best way to handle this is head on. It is vital to talk through any issue large or small immediately in order to find workable solutions.
Relationship Expert Advice & Help: #6
Learn Relationship & Communication Skills!
Inevitably people will make and re-make the same mistakes in their relationship until they learn a better way.
I highly recommend this book for men and for women. You will learn how to have a healthy relationship, how to effectively communicate, and how to heal old dysfunctional patterns that are harming your chances at a great relationship.
A Woman’s Book On Relationships, Life, Ourselves And The Healing Of It All
A Man’s Book On Relationships, Life, Ourselves And The Healing Of It All
Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. is a Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert, Acclaimed Life & Relationship Coach, and Author of the relationship and self-help books It’s That Simple! for men & women.
Bree has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW, FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.
For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/
Important Relationship Help Advice For Men
Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.
Over the years of working with and helping men with their relationships, there is one common thread that runs through each case—the man’s desire to make his woman happy. This constant is a vital reason many men become frustrated, angry, and eventually give up on their relationship.
Ironically, the very thing that drives a man in his relationship is the very reason he ends up unhappy.
How?
It generally goes like this…
The man wants and desires to make the woman in his life happy…he tries his best doing what he thinks will accomplish this goal…it does not work…she continually tells him what he is doing wrong and why she is not happy… he misses her message and keeps trying in his own way…she becomes more angry and keeps telling him what he is doing wrong (nagging)…he tries again and fails…finally he becomes sick of it all!
Does this sound familiar to you? If so, join the other men who are in the same very large boat!
So, how can a man avoid this? The answer lies in hearing “what” your woman is telling you.
This sounds easy enough right?
However, most men will not be able to “translate” what she is telling him into practical and applicable action.
Why?
Because we speak different languages! Men and women think, feel, process, and communicate differently. The solution to this rampant problem in relationships is learning how to listen and speak in your woman’s language.
There are two ways of doing this.
The first is to work with me one-on-one over the phone. I will teach and guide you every step of the way. You will know how to fix your relationship and make it into one that you both will be happy in.
The second is to read the It’s That Simple! A Man’s Book on Relationships. Life, Ourselves And The Healing Of It All . You will learn the relationship and communication skills you need to solve your problems with your woman.
The bottom line is that relationship issues do not magically go away on their own.
There must be some action taken to correct what is going wrong.
The good news is that the faster you learn, the quicker you will make it work.
Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. is a Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert, Acclaimed Life & Relationship Coach, and Author of the relationship and self-help books It’s That Simple! for men & women.
Bree has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW, FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.
Bree has Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with men, women, and couples.
For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/
Dating Help & Advice From A Relationship Expert!
Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.
Are you in the “dating world” trying to find a special someone to build a great relationship with but having a difficult time? Do you search for that exceptional connection that leaves you feeling happy and excited about the possibility of being a couple only to find yourself disappointed? Are you asking yourself why dating has become such a difficult and unsatisfying road?
As a relationship expert, I am frequently asked for help with these exact issues. It is amazing how often I hear the same types of dating stories from both men and women across the board.
The stories go something like this…they meet, really like one another, something goes wrong, they end up parting ways in a few weeks, months, or even years and are left heartbroken having to go “out there” again.
So what is the major problem?
There are several factors involved but it can be categorized as follows:
- Lack Of or Poor Pre-Qualification Process.
- Ignoring Important Red Flags.
- Lack Of Effective Communication Skills.
- Lack Of Successful Relationship Skills.
- Attracting The Same Type Of Person Without Looking At The Reason Why.
Each of these categories possess a key element as to why dating is not successful for a person.
I work with both men and women helping them find and keep that special person in their life. Together, we clarify exactly what you want, and then I teach and guide you through the process of attaining it!
I want you to know it is never hopeless and there is someone out there for you! If you need some help with dating or your relationship reach me here.
Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. is a Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert, Acclaimed Life & Relationship Coach, and Author of the relationship and self-help books It’s That Simple! for men & women.
Bree has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW, FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.
Bree has Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with men, women, and couples.
For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/
3 Top Relationship Help Tips!
It is easy to fall in lust and love, however, many men and women just do not know how to keep a relationship thriving!
They will pick the same type of partner and make the same mistakes ending up hurt and alone time and again.
For those who are repeating the same dysfunctional patterns and have no idea how to make a relationship work these relationship help tips will help.
#1 Relationship Help Tip: Listen!
The art of listening entails more than just hearing the words your partner is saying to you. To truly listen to your partner you must hear the underlying message. What do I mean by this? Most of the time people have a hard time expressing their inner most thoughts, feelings, and fears. They will wrap them up in stories or even rambling. The key to effective listening therefore is paying attention to the real message behind the words. On the other side of this coin is effective communicating. This is the ability to share with your partner your thoughts and feelings in a way so they can hear and understand your message.
This is such a huge problem in many relationships that a large section of the:
A Woman’s Book on Relationships, Life, Ourselves and The Healing Of It All
&
A Man’s Book on Relationships, Life, Ourselves and The Healing Of It All
provide the communication tools necessary for a man and woman to understand and talk with one another.
#2 Relationship Help Tip: Realistic Expectations!
Many couples fall apart because of the fantasy they have in their mind about what a great partner and relationship is suppose to be like. Due to these unrealistic expectations, they experience feelings of disappointment and that “something is missing.”
This can and often leads to problems in the relationship that really never need to be there. In the first place. With a little shift in perception, along with a dose of what realistic expectations are, this problem can be easily addressed and fixed.
#3 Relationship Help Tip: Keep The Intimacy!
Physical and emotional intimacy goes hand-in-hand in a healthy and thriving relationship. However, many couples let the emotional intimacy go and are surprised when their sex life fades away. Yes it is true that men and women are different in many ways, yet when it comes to the glue that holds a relationship together both genders want the same thing….intimacy.
Life, stress, children, and finances can all pull a couple away from keeping their intimacy alive and going strong. It really comes down to understanding how important this element is and making it a priority. Those couples who put this on the top of their relationship list are the ones that remain close by keeping their bond strong.
I help men and women around the country fix and heal their relationship through coaching over the phone. I have even helped couples who were on the brink of divorce repair and rebuild a happy and successful marriage. If you need some help and want to work with me you can learn more here.
Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. is a Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert, Acclaimed Life & Relationship Coach, and Author of the relationship and self-help books It’s That Simple! for men & women.
Bree has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW, FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.
Bree has Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with men, women, and couples.
For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/
How To Help A Relationship!
Relationship Help With Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.
Relationships are amazing opportunities to experience love, joy, fun, while adding a greater depth and quality to our lives. However did you know relationships are also a great tool for personal growth? Opening your mind up to this possibility is one of the most powerful things that can help your relationship!
When we shift our thinking towards this, we are afforded a whole new opportunity to heal and transform our relationship.
How?
Simply, when we step back and ask ourselves, “what can I learn here?” or “What is my part in this?” the doors to helping our relationship fly open.
However, what more commonly happens when problems arise in a relationship is that each person will instead blame the other. They will point the finger at the person they “love” and say awful, mean things including, “It is all your fault!” Doing this in a relationship is sure to accomplish one thing…damage to the relationship!
So why do so many couples end up in the position?
The answer is almost always because they do not know how to do it any other way. In other words, they were never taught the relationship skills that actually help their relationship.
When I am working with a couple, they learn how to successfully help and heal their relationship instead of unknowingly causing more damage to it.
I teach them how to:
- Effectively communicate with one another in a way that works.
- Hear the true message their partner is trying to tell them.
- Successfully move through conflict instead of getting stuck in it.
- Let go and heal the old wounds that are hurting their relationship.
- Bring back the passion, fun, and love again.
- Have the very best relationship they can with their partner.
The good news is there is a way to help your relationship!
You can reach me here for help
Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. is a Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert, Acclaimed Life & Relationship Coach, and Author of the relationship and self-help books It’s That Simple! for men & women.
Bree has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW, FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.
Bree has Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with men, women, and couples.
For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/