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Relationship Help To Avoid An Infidelity

 

Cheating  involves deceit, lying, guilt, shame, and pain for all involved. It is never the answer nor the solution to the problem, however, it occurs at an alarming rate. Men and women are reaching out for relationship help trying to figure out why their partner cheated, how they can stop them from cheating, or how they can stop themselves from cheating.

 

To begin, most infidelities do not instantaneously happen. There are many little warning signs and steps all along the way.  The person engaging in the affair will experience variations of these common stages:

 

  1. Noticing  another person
  2. Talking with the other person
  3. Feelings of attraction and desire for this new person
  4.  Flirtation with the other person
  5. Increased communication with the other person
  6. Increased thoughts and desires for the new person
  7. The first planed meeting to talk, have coffee or a drink
  8. The first physical interaction with the other person including touching, kissing and sex.

 

An affair can be consciously avoided during the first stage of “noticing” all the way through to the “first plan of meeting.”  The key word here is conscious. One must be aware along with being honest with themselves as to what is actually happening.  It is important for men and women to realize that during any of these first seven stages a person can stop, turn around, and avoid cheating.

 

The relationship help I provide to both men and women in this situation is very comprehensive.  I walk the individual or couple through a step-by-step process of exploration and healing. This process reveals what is missing or wrong in their life or relationship that is causing the desire to have or be involved in an affair. I enlighten my clients as to what  the core of the issues really, teach and guide them on exactly how to fix it for good.

 

If you are involved in an affair and want to end it or your partner has cheated and you need help repairing your relationship or moving on with your life, I am here to help you and your relationship.

 

I work with my clients over the phone to make it  convenient and confidential for them. If you would like to speak to me to see if I can help you, reach me here. I look forward to helping you heal and transform your life and relationship.

 

Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert, Acclaimed Life & Relationship Coach, & Author of the relationship help books It’s That Simple! for men and women Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.  has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.

Bree has Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with men, women, and couples.

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/

 

 

 

 

 

Relationship Expert Bree’s Do’s & Don’ts On A First Date!

 

Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A

 

Facing a first date can bring an array of mixed feelings including excitement, nervousness, and even dread! There is quite often incredible pressure put on a first date, which can lead both men and women to make dating mistakes preventing a relationship from developing.

 

The first and foremost rule of dating is always to come from an authentic place. Trying to present yourself as someone you are not is not only exhausting, it does not serve you or the other person well. The fact is that you are the most perfect you that exists. You are the only person in the world who can be the best you! Therefore, always be who you are…simply relax and show up as you.

 

Below are some more dating advice and relationship help Do’s and Don’ts for men and women for the first date!

 

Do’s For Men

  1. Always Be A Gentleman!

Go ahead and open doors, pull out her chair, and use your best manners. Women really enjoy and respond to this gentle treatment. A little chivalry always goes along way!

 

  1. Ask Pertinent Questions!

The best thing you can do to help the date go well is help her to talk about herself. The easiest way to accomplish this is to ask her a couple of key questions about her life, career, and family. This will let her know you are interested in getting to know her better.

 

  1. Take The Lead!

If the date goes well and you would like to see her again, secure the next date at the end of the first date. Never wait to call her for three days or play it “cool.” If you like her and think there may be potential for a relationship then pursue her!

 

Don’ts For Men

  1. Focus Only On You!

A first date killer is talking all about yourself. Although it may your nerves, it makes you come off as self-absorbed and uninterested in her. Relationships are give and take and it all starts with the first date!

 

  1. Don’t Show Her Your Stuff!

Even though it is natural to want to show a women you are interested in pictures of your home, car, boats, etc. it can come off as you are trying to impress her. If you like her, be sure to wait until your third date or later to share this with her.

 

  1. Don’t Touch Her First!

Women do not like when a man comes on too fast because it signals to her that he is a player or just interested in sex. If a woman wants you to have any type of physical contact with her, she will let you know by touching you on the arm or shoulder first. Once she does this, you can reach to hold her hand or give her a hug.

 

Do’s For Women

  1. Listen!

Be sure to ask him many questions about who he is and his life; then listen attentively. Be careful not to project what you want to hear but rather hear what he is actually telling you. To have a great relationship you need to pick a compatible match. If you want a serious relationship and he is telling you he is looking to date and have fun really hear that.

 

  1. Smile!

If the date is going well and you like him then smile. When you smile a lot it tells him you are interested in him. Be sure to pair this with good eye contact without staring and he will know you want him to ask you out again.

 

  1. Offer To Pay!

It is polite to offer to pay your portion of the bill when it is brought to the table. If he is a gentleman, he will never let you pay but will appreciate the gesture. If he has already made it clear he is paying then do not offer as he may take that as you are not interested. When he pays, immediately thank him by sharing with him how much you appreciate the great meal and time with him.

 

Don’ts For Women:

  1. Allow Him To Be A Gentleman!

If you act awkwardly or resistant when he opens the door or pulls out your chair you are signaling to him that you are not use to being treated nicely. Accept his gestures with grace and you both will feel good about it!

 

  1. Never Be Aggressive!

Leave your powerful professional woman at home and allow him to pursue you. You never want to act overtly sexual or come on to strong simply because it is a turn off for most men who are seriously looking for a real relationship.

 

  1. Flourish In Your Femininity!

If you really like him and want to see him, bite your lip and do not ask him out for the next date or say something like “call me!”  It is far better to allow him the opportunity to ask you out again because then you know he is really interested and not just feeling obligated because you asked.

 

If you need more relationship help or dating advice contact me here.

 

Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert, Acclaimed Life & Relationship Coach, & Author of the relationship help books It’s That Simple! for men and women Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.  has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.

Bree has Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with men, women, and couples.
Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/

Relationship Help From Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.

 

Expert Advice For Your Relationship Help Needs

 

Whether you are trying to find the right one, in a serious relationship, or marriage, you may unknowingly be making simple mistakes that create big problems.

 

If you are in the dating world but cannot seem to find the right one to start a relationship with then there are most likely problems with either your approach or actual dating skills. In either case, these can be easily solved with the right relationship help.

 

In a serious relationship or marriage and facing some issues that do not go away no matter what you try? Then it is time to get some sound relationship help to move you and your partner through this block in your relationship!

 

The most common areas couples have problems with in their relationship involve a lack of poor communication, lack of emotional and physical intimacy, built-up and unresolved resentments, and infidelity. In each of these areas there is a way to heal and re-build a loving and lasting relationship.

 

As a relationship expert, I work with both male and female clients all over the United States teaching them successful dating and relationship help. I am able to do this because I successfully work with my clients over the phone or Skype sessions.

 

People ask me if this is as effective as working with face to face with me in person. Surprisingly, the clients I work with by telephone are the ones that move through their process the most rapidly.

 

Why? I believe it is due to the fact that they are in their home or office where they feel very comfortable and safe. They do not have to drive to my office, wait in the waiting room, get comfortable in my office setting, and then open up about their problems. They have a sense of protection from the anonymity they receive by working with me over the phone. For these reasons their healing process is quickened right from the start.

 

Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert, Acclaimed Life & Relationship Coach, & Author of the relationship help books It’s That Simple! for men and women Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW, FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post. Bree has Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with men, women, and couples.

 

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/

Relationship Help Advice Just For Men!

 

From Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.

 

Men are having a very hard time making their relationship work and are actively seeking help to fix the problems. Why are men having such a hard time? Primarily because of the shift in gender roles and expectations that have occurred over the last five decades. This change has created a cross section of generations of men who are left scratching their head and asking, “What am I doing wrong?”

 

Men used to know exactly what their role was as a man and how to properly fulfill it. However, many men today are struggling with the lose of that well-defined role along with how to interact and please the woman in their life.

 

The biggest complaint I hear from the men I work with is that they feel they cannot seem to make their woman happy. They tell me of how they try and figure out what to do but they realize they need help to make the relationship work.
In most cases, it is first and foremost an emotional disconnect between the man and his woman followed by mis-communication patterns in their relationship.

 

Once they receive the help I give to them they are able to repair their relationship quite quickly. How? I teach men the “ins and outs” of what makes a woman tick, how to communicate with her, and how to deliver what she is looking for from him, in order to help them understand their woman and create a healthy relationship.

 

Ironically, when I share with them what she is thinking or feeling about a particular issue they are amazed by it. Men tend to create things to be a much bigger mountain in the relationship than there really needs to be. This is not to disrespect men in anyway, it is just a dynamic I have seen occur time and again.
What do I mean exactly?

 

Well, a good example would be a man coming to me for relationship help advice about fighting too much with his wife. He is drained, overwhelmed, and feels there is no easy solution to the problem. He will say things like, ” She is impossible to please, I can’t fix this I have tried everything!” Once I hear the entire story from his perspective, I share with him what is going on from a woman’s perspective and how to make simple yet profound changes. When he implements the changes he always comes back and tells me, “Bree it worked!”

 

When I am working with a man, the help I give him for his relationship is straightforward and simple to apply immediately. The goal always for him is to see instant positive results in his relationship!

 

If you need some relationship help advice learn more here.

 

Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert, Acclaimed Life & Relationship Coach, & Author of the relationship help books It’s That Simple! for men and women Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW, FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.
Bree has Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with men, women, and couples.

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/

Relationship Help Advice!

 

Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.

 

Do you love your partner or spouse but are having a hard time understanding why you are not getting along? If so, you are not alone! The success rate of long-term relationships and marriages is not doing so well these days.

 

Why?

 

One reason is that our social construct has changed bringing those things that were once hidden or swept under the carpet out into the open. Such things as addictions, mistreatment, and abuse of all kinds. The paradigm of “don’t air your dirty laundry” has shifted to expose behaviors and dynamics that are harmful.

 

This is a wonderful change as it brings to light things that can be very damaging. However, this shift has also brought a lack of commitment along with it, which is the second reason.  Many men and women today have a “disposable” attitude toward relationships. The once held “for richer or poorer, in sickness and health, in good times and bad” concept has greatly faded. In its place is a “well if things work out then I will stay” mentality.

 

My relationship help advice is in no way suggesting that anyone should stay in an abusive situation ever. However, when there is hope and possibility for positive change I do suggest trying everything first before throwing in the towel.

 

So how can you or anyone in a relationship that is not working get help?

 

There are degrees of help available depending upon what your relationship needs. For instance, if you are experiencing minor to moderate fighting and mis-communication then I would suggest a relationship help book. If you and your partner /spouse are fighting constantly, the passion has slipped away, there is a break down in the communication, or there has been an infidelity then you can turn to a relationship expert coach for help. If there are addictions, abuse, or mental health issues such as depression or bi-polar disorder then it is time to work with a mental health professional such as a psychotherapist or psychiatrist. Of course you can work with a mental health professional for help for any level of problems in your relationship.

 

If you need a relationship help book I suggest  It’s That Simple! for men and It’s That Simple! for women. In each of these books, the reader learns how to communicate with the opposite sex, how to develop a healthy relationship with themselves and their partner, and how to create a deeper and stronger bond with their partner to create a healthy, happy, and lasting relationship.

 

If you need relationship coaching you can reach me at 772-223-8747 to set up an initial free consultation or fill out this coaching request form. I work with men and women all around the country via telephone or Skype sessions. This is provides convenience and comfort as you will be in your home or office while we work together.

 

If your relationship needs the help of a mental health professional check with your insurance carrier for those in your network or your local listings for someone in your area.

 

Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert, Acclaimed Life & Relationship Coach, & Author of the relationship help books It’s That Simple! for men and women Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.  has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.

Bree has Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with men, women, and couples.

 
Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/

 

Need Relationship Help?

 

Are you fighting with your partner? Has the passion gone out of your relationship? Have you stopped communicating all together? Has your spouse cheated on you? If you answered “yes” to any of these questions then it is time to get some help for your relationship!

 

Although the best time to fix as relationship is before it is broken, it is never too late to learn how to create a strong, healthy, and happy relationship with your partner.

 

I offer two different forms of relationship help

 

One is through the

It’s That Simple! relationship help book for men and It’s That Simple! relationship help book for women.

 

The second is through personal one-on-one relationship coaching with you.

 

So which one is right for you?

 

If you are not ready or cannot afford to work with me then I suggest getting the It’s That Simple! book for yourself and your partner. By reading it you will learn the skills  to communicate effectively, stop fighting, understand your partner and yourself in a whole new way, and how to create a happy and loving relationship.

 

Each book is designed especially for either a man or a woman. Although the books work as companions for a couple they  can also stand alone for the individual reader. Both books are written in a simple to understand and apply process that will give you the steps to take to create a great relationship.

 

If you feel that books are great but you need more personal help then I will work with you in the comfort of your home or office via telephone sessions. I will guide you through the steps to heal the issues that are causing you problems. I will be with you each step of the way until you and your relationship are where you want to be.

 

Simply contact me at 772-223-8747 or fill out this coaching request form.

 

I look forward to meeting and working with you!

 

Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert, Acclaimed Life & Relationship Coach, & Author of the relationship help books It’s That Simple! for men and women Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.  has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.

Bree has Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with men, women, and couples.
Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/

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