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Need Relationship Help? Ask Expert Bree!

 

 

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.

 

“Ask Bree” is a part of my website, which aims to give direct answers to relationship problems men and women have.

 

Anyone can anonymously submit a question as well as read through all of the other relationship questions and help already provided.

 

You will find an array of men and women’s questions ranging from the very common to some extreme situations.

 

Even in the best of relationships people will run into problems that need solving. There are two other ways men and women can get this help.

 

Relationship Help From Expert Bree #1:

One-on-One Coaching!

I work with men and women from around the United States via telephone or Skype sessions. People come to me for help with all sorts of issues such as:

 

  • Healing from an infidelity
  • Not being able to talk to one another
  • Fighting too much
  • Parenting style conflicts
  • The loss of their sex-life
  • Not understanding the opposite sex
  • Dating disasters
  • Not being able to find or keep a solid relationship

 

My style is to join with my client to form a team. I coach them all the way through until we met their desired goal. Along the way, my clients discover new parts to themselves and are able to heal those places that are holding them back.

 

I usually see my clients once a week for a one-hour session. This is done wither over the phone or internet, whichever they prefer. My clients are typically in their home or office, which makes it extremely convenient for them to fit into their schedule.

 

Relationship Help From Expert Bree #2:

It’s That Simple! Books

About three years ago, I wrote two books in order to further help men and women heal their relationships. There is a book for men and one for women. Each book is a condensed therapeutic healing process that is easy to read, understand, and apply. It is  guaranteed to help your relationship or your money back!

 

It’s That Simple!

A Woman’s Book on Relationships, Life, Ourselves and The Healing Of It All

It’s That Simple!

A Man’s Book on Relationships, Life, Ourselves and The Healing Of It All

Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert & Relationship Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.  has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.

Bree has Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with men, women, and couples.

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/

 

Holiday Relationship Help Tips From Expert Bree!

Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer’s Help For The Holidays

 

The holidays are meant to be an enjoyable time of celebration and honoring ones faith with family and friends. However, more times than not, they turn into days filled with incredible pressure and stress resulting in arguing and dysfunction.

 

Why?

 

The simple answer is grand expectations with a disappointing reality.

 

On some level, each person has an idealized picture of what the holidays and their relationship is suppose to look like. They hope everything will be perfect and this year will be the time it happens.

 

Bree’s Relationship Help Tip #1:

Let Go of Artificial Expectations!

If there are issues in your relationship those issues will not magically disappear just because it is a certain date on the calendar. Go into the holiday season with a realistic expectation for you and your partner. Look for the good in your partner along with choosing to minimize your attention on the things that drive you crazy.

 

Bree’s Relationship Help Tip #2:

Form A Team!

I like to call this the “team-centered” approach to a relationship. Instead of allowing the pressures and stress of the holidays to tear you apart, consciously decide to bond together.  Make the declaration that no matter what comes your way, you will deal with it as a team working for the same goal.

 

Bree’s Relationship Help Tip #3:

Use Humor!

When we stand back and look at how crazy things can get or how unbelievably ridiculous family dynamics can be it is quite funny. Choose to look at this time with a light sense of humor bringing laughter into the picture as often as possible. A positive side effect of doing this might just be getting those around you to laugh as well!

 

Bree’s Relationship Help Tip #4:

Steal Away Some Private Moments!

There is nothing better in the middle of chaos than ducking in a closet for a quick romantic kiss. You could even step outside for some fresh air and give one another a loving hug. These types of stolen moments will help keep your thoughts and mood in the right place!

 

Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.  has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.

Bree has Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with men, women, and couples.

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/

You Can Have A Successful Relationship With A Little Help!

 

Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Helps Couples

 

When we are children we are made to go to school to learn from books the basics of reading, writing, and arithmetic. As we mature and continue on to college and then graduate school we are taught how to think and focus all our attention on our desired course of study.

 

Unless you went to school specifically to learn how to have a great relationship you were not taught the skills to do so. Is there any wonder then why so many relationships cannot get through problems that come their way?

 

I have spent my career teaching, guiding, and helping men and women understand and love themselves and their partner.

 

About three years ago, I realized that the only way to help as many as I could was to write a simple to ready and apply relationship help book for both men and women.

 

I titled these relationship help books It’s That Simple! to emphasize the point that once we have the right information and tools we can have the relationship of our dreams!

When you read these relationship help books you will learn how to…

  • Communicate with your partner in a way that really works!
  • Use conflict resolution skills to stop fighting!
  • Discover a whole new healthy relationship with yourself & partner!
  • Heal dysfunctional patterns that are harming you and your relationship!
  • Bring back the passion and fall in love with your partner again!

 

Get Your Copy & Transform Your Relationship Now!

It’s That Simple! Relationship Help Book For Women
   It’s That Simple! Relationship Help Book For Men

 

Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.  has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.

Bree has Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with men, women, and couples.

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/

 

 

 

 

Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Helps Men

 

 

Relationship Help Especially For Men

 

Men today are finding it harder and harder to make their relationship work. This leaves most of these men feeling frustrated, angry and lost all of which can lead to wanting to give up and walk away.

 

Of course, this is the worst thing for the relationship. However, what else is a man to do when he has tried everything and nothing is working?

 

Relationship Help Expert Bree Tip #1 For Men: 

Listen!

A woman will tell you what she wants from you. Generally, she will not provide this valuable information directly though.

 

Why? Because she feels that if you loved her, you would know what she wants and needs from you.

 

That makes no sense to you as a man right? Well, that is why you must listen to her when she is sharing her ideas, thoughts, and feelings with you. She is communicating to you who she is and what she desires. For instance, if she drags you to go see a romantic comedy movie and tells you how much she loved it, she is telling you she wants more romance from you. Another example would be if she describes her friend’s husband and what he is doing for his wife, she is telling you this so you will do it as well.

 

This is very frustrating to men because they do not understand why a woman will not just tell them what they want.

 

The fact is that you cannot change how a woman communicates but you can learn how to decipher it!

 

Relationship Help Expert Bree Tip #2 For Men:

Act!

Once you have “heard” what your woman is looking for from you, even if it is a small thing go ahead and do it on a consistent basis. The key word here is consistent. Women look for consistency and not just a one-time action.

 

For example, if you have heard that your woman wants more help around the house or with the children, then every day make a point of doing at least one thing to help her out. After doing this ask her if there is anything else she would like for you to help her with and tell her you want to be supportive to her in anyway she needs. She will melt when she hears this!

 

Relationship Help Expert Bree Tip #3 For Men:

Listen Again!

A woman will continually change what she is looking for from you as you meet her current desires. I know this can be even more frustrating than her not telling you directly what she wants but it is true.

 

She is not doing this to be difficult or to keep you guessing, she is doing it because she is evolving every day. Her ideas, dreams, and desires change as she does so keeping up with her is key.

 

It really just takes a minimal effort once you understand this concept—she wants you to know her and provide for her what she needs without telling you straightforwardly. Once this really sinks in, you will be empowered because you know the secret-to listen and act on a consistent basis.

 

Relationship Help Expert Bree Tip #4 For Men:

Share!

A relationship should never be a one-way street. Just as she has things she wants to receive from you, the opposite is true.

 

What you desire from her is vital information that she needs to know and act on as well. Here is the tricky part, most men do not understand what they want or if they do, do not communicate it.

 

Therefore, you must understand what you would like to receive from her and tell her. For example, if you want Sunday afternoon to yourself to watch football, you need to share that information with her.  Let her know how important it is for you to have this downtime and how much it means to you when she allows that to happen.

 

 

I work one-on-one with men around the country via phone sessions to help them understand their woman or women in general. Click here to learn more!

 

Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.  has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post. Bree has Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with men, women, and couples.

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/

 

Get Relationship Help In The Privacy Of Your Home!

 

Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Has An In-Home Coaching Program

 

What could be better than receiving the help you need for your relationship in the comfort of your own home or office?

 

I began working with clients over the phone because I saw a great need for it in people’s overwhelmingly busy lives. Today, most anyone you speak with has one thing to say, “I am so busy!”

 

What I have noticed most since I began doing my work over the phone is that my clients progress moves much faster than if I were seeing them in an office setting.

 

I attribute this faster pace through the healing journey to the one constant they all share — they are doing it from their home or office.  They report to me that they feel safe and comfortable in their own surroundings. This element helps them open up faster with me in order to receive the relationship help they are seeking. As well, they have their anonymity, which helps them feel safer to open up about the real issues they are facing.

 

In addition, having this luxury makes them more committed to the process of learning how to transform their relationship. They can easily fit there session with me into their demanding lives without it causing a major interruption in their day. In fact, what I hear most from my clients is, “I look forward to my session with you every week Bree I wish I could talk to you everyday!”

 

I am quite frequently asked if there are some issues I feel do not work by doing it over the phone.  Yes, absolutely there are. If a person has issues that need in-person or in-patient treatment I will refer them to a resource that is more appropriate for their specific needs.

 

My goal for each client is to achieve his or her best life and relationship possible. If I cannot help them to attain this, I will refer them to a resource that will!

 

I help both men and women learn how to make positive changes in their lives and relationships through a simple to understand and apply program that I designed using my fifteen years of experience working with individuals, couples, and families. This coaching program walks the person through a step-by-step healing process that improves the relationship they have with themselves, their partner, and their life. The best part is that it is simple for them to incorporate into their everyday lives.

 

If you need relationship help click here for more information!

 

Acclaimed as the Best Relationship & Life Coach and Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post. Bree has a Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with individuals and couples.

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/

 

Need Relationship Help With Your Marriage?

Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Helps Couples Stay Together!

 

We all know that anger and fighting are part of any normal marriage or relationship. However, did you know that done in the wrong way it can cause severe damage to the relationship?

 

Many once happily married couples have slowly but surely eroded their relationship by arguing in unhealthy ways. The biggest effect these negative behavioral patterns cause is destroying the emotional bond and trust they have with one another.

 

Once this has occurred it takes diligent effort and work to build it back up again.

 

How does this happen?

 

When one or both marriage partners do not fight fairly they are informing their partner they are a not a safe place for them. In other words, when the fighting begins if there is name-calling, accusations, blaming and/or attacks of character damage happens to their bond.

 

For the majority who were not taught how to fight fairly they have no idea of how easy it is to avoid all of this negativity and destruction to their relationship.

 

Little issues end up becoming large unresolved ones leading to resentments and contempt. Where there was once love and understanding there is now impatience and intolerance.

 

The fact is that once a person has the right tools to identify and process through there emotions they will not cause damage to their relationship.

 

They will be able to handle conflicts with awareness and expertise. They will find themselves moving through issues right to the solution rather than creating more of a relationship problem.

 

How do I know?

 

It is what I do! I help both men and women learn conflict resolution skills along with effective communication skills so they can have a thriving marriage and relationship.

 

My clients are located throughout the United States as I work with them via telephone or Skype sessions. This makes its very convenient and easy for them as they are able to work with me from the comfort of their home or office.

 

If you are saying to yourself, “I need relationship help!” reach me here.

 

Acclaimed as the Best Relationship & Life Coach and Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post. Bree has a Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with individuals and couples.

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/

 

Relationship Help Advice From Expert Bree

 

 

Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Gives Couples Great Help!

 

“Relationships are so hard!” is exclaimed across the board from the men and women who come to me for help. “Why is it so hard Bree?” they will ask me in utter dismay.

 

They love their partner and want to have a great relationship but just cannot figure out how to do it. They usually have tried everything they know to do first before coming to me for relationship help advice.

 

These are the six most common reasons both men and women hire me to work with them in order to help their relationship:

 

  1. They are frustrated with their lack of ability to effectively communicate with one another.
  2. They are fighting over little things and feeling angry much of the time.
  3. They are struggling with the loss of their physical intimacy and sex life.
  4. They have children and have become “parents” instead of “partners.”
  5. They have forgotten how special one anther is and are focusing on the negatives of their partner.
  6. They are trying to figure out how to deal with an infidelity in their relationship.

 

Of course there are a number of other reasons individuals and couples work with me seeking my advice  but these tend to be the most common elements that act as a catalyst for them to seek relationship help.

 

One of the best parts of my job is to share with those I work with that it is possible to heal what is wrong and create a whole new loving and thriving relationship! Many times they cannot believe this could be true, especially with the way they are feeling at the moment. However, in just a few sessions they do experience incredible positive changes that show them it is very possible!

 

If you are in need of some help with your relationship working with me you will learn exactly how to fix what is wrong and create the relationship of your dreams…yes even with your current partner!

 

To learn more click here!

 

Acclaimed as the Best Relationship & Life Coach and Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post. Bree has a Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with individuals and couples.

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/

 

Relationship Help With Healing From An Infidelity

 

 

 

Successful Relationship Help With An Infidelity

 

The emotional pain one feels when their partner cheats is devastating!

 

One’s entire world becomes turned upside down leaving them feeling that nothing making sense any longer. The idea of what their relationship meant is shattered along with the trust and bond they once had with their partner. It seems like the end of the world and certainly the end of their relationship.

 

Even though all of this is a normal reaction to an infidelity, it does not have to be the end of the story. There is a way to heal from an infidelity and rebuild your relationship.

 

How do I know?

 

Simply stated, because I have helped countless couples move through the pain into a loving healthy relationship.

 

However, I will not sugar coat this and tell you it is an easy healing process to go through…it is not!

 

It takes time, effort, commitment, patience, and love on the part of the couple along with the exact right tools and guidance on the part of the relationship coach or therapist.

 

When I have a couple come to me wanting to heal from an infidelity I assure them it can be done but also tell them the reality of the picture. To begin, infidelities, for the most part, are not isolated events.

 

What do I mean by this?

 

Well, there are real tangible reasons the infidelity occurred in the first place.  The core issue of this must be identified, addressed, and healed first to ensure a healed and whole relationship.

 

I am often asked, “How long will this take?” The time it takes for the healing from the infidelity is uniquely individual to each couple. Some relationships are able to dive right in and move through the healing process while others drag their feet holding onto the pain and resentments for a longer period of time.

 

The couples who make it through the infidelity the easiest are the ones who are both committed to the process and willing to take personal responsibility for their part of the issues.

 

If you need relationship help getting through an infidelity I can help you!

 

 

Acclaimed as the Best Relationship & Life Coach and Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post. Bree has a Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with individuals and couples.

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/

 

I Need Relationship Help Advice Right Now!

 

Relationship Help Is Available!

 

“I have tried everything and have no idea what else to do, I need relationship help advice can you please teach me what to do Bree?” is commonly what I hear from both men and women struggling with relationship problems.

 

In general, they are experiencing an array of feelings that range from anger, frustration, sadness, and confusion. They desperately want their relationship to work but have hit a brick wall causing them to reach out for some help.

 

Some of the most common problems leading couples to this state involve:

  • A lack of conflict resolution skills
  • Poor communication skills
  • Inefficient coping mechanisms
  • The loss of their emotional & sexual connection
  • An Infidelity

 

 

When a relationship encounters one ore more of these problems, the security of the relationship is threatened. That is unless the couple possesses the right information and tools to get through it.

 

Unfortunately, countless men and women have not learned what they need in order to keep their relationship strong, healthy, and happy. Due to this, these individuals will unknowingly create even more issues and damage to their relationship.

 

However, when an individual or couple realizes they need to learn some things to get their relationship back on track they are in a wonderfully empowered place to make incredible changes.

 

This simple decision opens the door for them to be willing to learn and apply the specific relationship help they need to save and change their relationship.

 

Those I work with to help their relationship learn how to:

  • Successfully move through conflicts to a place of mutual resolution
  • Effective communication skills to ensure each partner is heard
  • Stress management skills to disarm life stressors harming their relationship
  • Recreating and deepening their emotional bond
  • Rebuilding and enjoying a healthy sexual relationship
  • Forgive and move forward to a healed place together

 

If you find yourself saying, “I need relationship help!” then

click here to learn the different ways I can help you save and transform your relationship.

 

 

Acclaimed as the Best Relationship & Life Coach and Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post. Bree has a Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with individuals and couples.

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/

 

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