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Monthly Archives: August 2012

Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Reveals How To Protect Your Relationship!

Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.

Relationship Help Advice

When couples come to me for relationship help they want to find out why their once good relationship fell apart and how to fix it. In most cases, it was the small things that insidiously caused damage over time. These small things eventually turned into big resentments and blocks within their relationship. By the time these couples come to me, there is a lot of healing and transformation that needs to occur.

I encourage all couples to avoid this common mistake by protecting their relationship every step of the way. In order to do this there are a few key steps that should always be taken.

Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Gives Relationship Help Advice #1:

Keep The Focus On The Good!

It is so incredibly easy to look at our partner and see, point out, and pay attention to their negative qualities. On the other hand, to continually notice, mention, and praise our partner’s good takes some conscious work!

How often have you found yourself thinking or talking about something that bothers you about your partner? Now think about how much time you spend thinking and talking about the wonderful parts of your partner. Which one do you do more?

In order to have a healthy and happy long-term relationship it is important to spend more of your mental time and energy focusing on your partner’s good.

Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Gives Relationship Help Advice #2:

Hold Your Tongue!

It is normal to become angry with our partners now and then. This is actually a healthy part of a relationship as it indicates that a boundary has been crossed, an issue has been hit upon, or miscommunication has occurred. In any of these scenarios when the anger is turned into an attack at our partner, it is causing great damage to the relationship. This sounds like simple common sense, however, many men and women unconsciously take their anger and project it at their partner instead of working it through.

Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Gives Relationship Help Advice #3:

Keep A Team-Centered Approach!

One of the greatest mistakes I see in relationships is when a couple forgets they are both on the same “team” trying to win the “game.”

The win to this game is being happy and enjoying life together. Often times a couple will allow life stressors to divide them. When this happens they end up pointing the finger and blaming one another, instead of sticking together and facing things head on as a team. When a couple adopts the team-centered approach they are more likely to handle stressors and difficult times with healthier coping skills.

Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Gives Relationship Help Advice #4:

Effective Communication!

Any one can communicate but is that communication successful?

To have good communication with your partner you need to know how to share what you want and how to listen to really hear what your partner is saying.

The relationships who make it are the ones who have a solid ability to communicate with each other.

This is such a vital piece of a healthy relationship that I devoted a whole chapter to it in the It’s That Simple! relationship help books for men and women. When a couple has trouble communicating it only creates more problems in the other areas of their relationship.

Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Gives Relationship Help Advice #5:

Remember to Play!

Couples who can have fun and laugh together have a better chance at keeping their relationship together for the long run.

Those couples who allow their relationship to become routine and boring have a much harder time. Life today can be very busy and overwhelming leaving out the fun and joy. Those couples who make a point of doing things together that are enjoyable will experience  higher levels of feeling fulfilled within their relationship.

Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert, Acclaimed Relationship & Life Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. holds a Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling, has over fifteen years of clinical experience working with individuals and couples, and has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website

http://www.itsthatsimple.ws

Relationship Help Advice From Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.

Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.

Relationship Help

Many men and women miss one very important factor in their relationship-its frailty. This is so important for people to understand for if they do not, they will treat one another and their relationship in such a ways that causes harm and possible irreparable damage.

I liken relationships to living organisms. They need “food” and “water,” which are attention, care, and nurturing in order to thrive. When these elements are not present the relationship, just like any living organism, will eventually die.

Here are the top five ways people “forget” how fragile their relationship is.

Relationship Help Advice From Relationship Expert Bree #1:

Getting Too Comfortable! It is human nature to get used to things that we already have. This can range anywhere from clean air and indoor plumbing to money and a relationship. In order for a relationship to thrive both partners must keep it fresh. This occurs when each is consciously aware of how blessed they are to have one another. They then speak and behave in ways that is motivated by this gratitude.

Relationship Help Advice From Relationship Expert Bree #2:

Taking For Granted! When partners take one another for granted they move past the too comfortable stage right into complete forgetfulness! This is most commonly seen in relationships when one or both partners overlook the kindness, love, and care the other has and is giving. A good example of this is when a husband stops by the dry cleaners on the way home after a difficult day because he knows his wife needs her dress for an event that evening. When he gets home, she barley addresses him or the thoughtful and kind act of love he did for her.

Relationship Help Advice From Relationship Expert Bree #3:

Forgetting The Specialness in One Another! Everyone is special in his or her own right. We each have amazingly unique qualities that make us who we are. In the beginning of a new relationship that is all that is seen—the awesomeness of the other person. However, when not kept as a focus many couples will lose sight of one another’s incredibleness and pay more attention to their flaws.

Relationship Help Advice From Relationship Expert Bree #4:

Devaluing Each Other As A Priority!  A priority means that something or someone is ranked highly in terms of importance. As time passes, many couples forget to continue to rank one another and their relationship as a top priority. Instead, life stressors, career, children, and responsibilities are allowed to take over pushing their partner and relationship down on the priority list.

Relationship Help Advice From Relationship Expert Bree #5:

Allowing Boredom To Set In!  Keeping life together interesting, exciting, and entertaining is important in keeping a relationship healthy and happy. When the feeling of boredom enters a relationship many will start to blame one another and believe it is their partner that is boring instead of what has happened to the relationship.

Remembering the specialness in one another, treating each other with kindness, care, and love and keeping it fresh is a magnificent recipe for having a great and lasting relationship!

Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert, Acclaimed Relationship & Life Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. holds a Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling, has over fifteen years of clinical experience working with individuals and couples, and has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website

http://www.itsthatsimple.ws

Top Relationship Self-Help Books Written By Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.

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Top Relationship Self-Help Books Written By Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.

Hands down the best relationship self-help books available are It’s That Simple! These companion relationship self-help books are written to help couples not just save or fix their relationship but transform it into something amazing and fulfilling!

Since men and women think, process, and understand in very different ways having a one-size fits all book often leaves them lacking vital information they need for their relationship.

The It’s That Simple! books offer the answer!

One is written just for men and one is written just for women in gender specific language. This way men and women can fully understand and apply the help in the books to their relationship.

These companion relationship self-help books can be read by either a couple in a relationship, one person in the relationship, or a single person. In any of these scenarios the reader will receive an incredible amount of help not only for their relationship but for their overall life as well.

Whoever is reading these books will feel as if Bree is speaking to him or her personally. The reader will enjoy feeling as if he or she is receiving relationship coaching from Bree herself. By the end of the book the reader will feel as if Bree has personally worked with him or her helping them change their life and relationship for the better!

In these tough economic times hiring a therapist or relationship coach is not always an option. That is why the It’s That Simple! books are written in a therapeutic style. The reader will experience the healing journey as they move through the pages and chapters of the book.

You can get the woman’s book here and the men’s book through Barnes & Noble.

For the Kindle version get the woman’s book here and the men’s book here.

Acclaimed Relationship & Life Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. holds a Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling, has over fifteen years of clinical experience working with individuals and couples, and has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website

http://www.itsthatsimple.ws

Best Relationship Help Books For Men & Women – It’s That Simple!

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Best Relationship Help Books For Men & Women

It’s That Simple! Relationship Help Books for men and women were written by Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert, Relationship & Life Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.

We had a chance to interview Bree and ask her how these simple books could really save and transform a relationship.

Best Relationship Help Books Question #1:

Bree what can a couple expect who read the It’s That Simple! relationship help books?

For the couple reading the books, they can expect to receive incredible tangible help for their relationship. Whether it has to do with communication, understanding themselves and their partner, or finding ways to build their connection, the books show them how. The books are written in such a way that the reader feels as if I am right there with them guiding them each step of the way. This was done so the reader feels supported as they move through the book and the healing process of their relationship.

Best Relationship Help Books Question #2:

What sets the It’s That Simple! books apart?

That is a great question, especially since the market is filled with relationship self-help books. The It’s That Simple! books are the best on the market because they offer something no other relationship help books do. Each is written in a gender specific language making it very simple to understand and then apply the help they receive. More specifically the man’s book is written in a man’s language and the women’s book is written in a woman’s language. This unique quality offers the reader the ability to simultaneously read his or her book along with their partner or read his or her own book independently. In addition, the books are written in a “process” format allowing the reader to take one simple healing step at a time. Each step they take is building a foundation from which they can grow, heal, and transform their relationship.

Best Relationship Help Books Question #3:

If only the woman reads the woman’s book will it help the couple’s relationship improve or does the man need to read the man’s book too?

If only one partner ends up reading their specific book, for example the woman reads the woman’s book, the information, guidance, and tools provided will absolutely improve the relationship. Quite frequently, it ends up being one partner who takes the first step in improving the relationship. The great news with these books is that whether it is the man or the women, each book has the content necessary to provide the relationship with vital information and tools to thrive.

Best Relationship Help Books Question #4:

Why do people end up reading relationship help books?

There are several reasons men and women seek help in self-help books, especially when it comes to helping their relationship. The first is it is affordable. In this tough global economy today many cannot afford to get professional help through a therapist or coach so they turn to books for help. Another reason is that it is a safe first step. Facing issues within oneself or ones relationship is never easy. It takes courage, time, patience, and willingness to do so. Buying and reading a book makes that first step easier to take. Finally, reading a book can be done in ones own time and at ones own pace. Many people like this as they feel in control of their healing journey.

Best Relationship Help Books Question #5:

Where can people get these books and in what formats?

The books are available in paperback through Barnes & Noble. Click here for the Woman’s Book and here for the Man’s Book.

If a reader would prefer the Kindle version they can click her for the Woman’s Book or here for the Man’s Book.

Acclaimed Relationship & Life Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. holds a Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling, has over fifteen years of clinical experience working with individuals and couples, and has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website

http://www.itsthatsimple.ws

Relationship Problems Help From Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.

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Relationship Problems Help From Relationship Expert Bree

I see quite frequently good couples fall apart because they just do not have the right tools and skills to keep their relationship together. The bottom line is that every relationship will encounter some problems. The key to success is having the know-how to get through the difficult times and be able to stay together. Below are five basic tools every couple should have and use!

Relationship Expert Bree Gives Relationship Problem Help #1:

Always go back to your roots! If you have been together three months or thirty years it is important to stay conscious of what attracted you to your partner. Frequently, men and women will become comfortable and complacent with their partner and relationship. When this happens little annoyances can turn into big problems. To avoid this, keep your focus on why you initially fell for your partner.

Relationship Expert Bree Gives Relationship Problem Help #2:

Be sure to have “selective attention.” What I mean by this is to consciously choose to put your attention on the good in your partner. This means that you “select” to focus on the “good” and not the “bad” in your partner. For example, if your partner is great at communicating his or her feelings but lacking in excitement, make the decision to think about how blessed you are to have a partner who can communicate well. The more you focus on something in someone the more that will increase. Therefore, focusing on the good in your partner and relationship increases the good!

Relationship Expert Bree Gives Relationship Problem Help #3:

Adopt a “team-centered” mind set with your relationship. When a couple does this they are choosing to stand next to one another, side-by-side, facing life instead of pitting against one another.  In order to win the game (being happy together) each team member (partner) must work together for the good of the team. What I see happen in many relationships is partners forgetting the ultimate goal and allowing life circumstances to divide and conquer their relationship.

Relationship Expert Bree Gives Relationship Problem Help #4:

On a daily basis, have some fun together. This may sound impossible to do with most having such busy schedules but it is very important for keeping the relationship together. A couple can have fun with activities or just laughing together. The goal with this tool is to maintain a level of lightheartedness with one another. Life stressors can become very heavy and daunting. Having one another to relieve the stress and laugh with is extremely important when it comes to the relationship being a happy one.

Relationship Expert Bree Gives Relationship Problem Help #5:

Each day find some time for intimacy. Intimacy in a relationship comes in two forms; emotionally and physically. Each of these is important and increase when combined together.  Sharing with your partner how you are feeling and then having some form of physical touch accompanying it deepens your bond. Relationships in which there is a high level of emotional and physical intimacy experience great levels of fulfillment and happiness.

The It’s That Simple! relationship help books are written especially to help both men and women understand themselves and their partner so they may have an incredible relationship. Each book provides necessary information, tools, and guidance to help a couple repair and transform their relationship into an amazing one!

It’s That Simple! A Man’s Book on Relationships, Life, Ourselves, and The Healing of it All

&

It’s That Simple! A Woman’s Book on Relationships, Life, Ourselves, and The Healing of it All

Acclaimed Relationship & Life Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. holds a Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling, has over fifteen years of clinical experience working with individuals and couples, and has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website

http://www.itsthatsimple.ws

Relationship Help Advice For Women: How To Get Your Man To Listen To You!

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Advice For Women: How To Get Your Man To Listen To You!

One of the main complaints I hear from women is that their man does not listen. Women have a hard time understanding why this is. Unfortunately because of this they end up doing thins that cause damage in their relationship. Below are my relationship help advice tips for women when it comes to getting your man to listen:

Relationship Help Advice For Women #1:

To begin, men and women are different and communicate differently! This must be fully understood by a woman in a relationship with a man. When a woman tries to communicate with her man as if she is speaking with another woman it will never work!

We as women are taught how to communicate our thoughts and feelings from the time we are very young. In fact, we are encouraged to do so. However, men are not given this same opportunity and are often inept in the communication department.

Relationship Help Advice For Women #2:

When you want your man to hear you be sure to communicate in a way he understands. For instance, if he is into sports, cars, finances, or hunting use metaphors he can relate too. For example, if he is into football you can use terms like, “I like being on the same team with you” or “Wow you really made a touchdown with my birthday gift I love it!” This may sound too simple to work but it does!

Relationship Help Advice For Women #3:

If you have a specific point you want to make be clear and concise in your speaking. For instance, if you want your man to take out the trash on every Tuesday be sure to say only that and leave it alone. “Honey, can you please be sure to take out the trash Tuesday morning?” If you hit him with too many things at once he will shut down and you will feel unheard.

Relationship Help Advice For Women #4:

Always use your “I” statements and never use your “you” blame statements. This again sounds too simple to be true but it is. In fact, many women have a hard time doing this because they are so use to speaking their feelings with blaming statements. For example, “you never listen to me and take out the trash!” versus “I feel hurt when I ask for help and it is not followed through on.”

Your man wants to make you happy. Therefore, if you speak to him from an “I” place his defenses will not come up. He will be much more open to hearing how you feel than being badgered with blame or shame statements.

Relationship Help Advice For Women #5:

Finally, as hard as this can be for women never, ever, ever, nag your man! If you set up a communication pattern of always nagging he will immediately tune you out and not hear anything you are saying-even if it is positive!

To avoid nagging, be clear, concise and use your “I” feeling statements. If this does not work, then it is time to reach out for help from a professional.

I often work with couples who need just a few sessions to learn how to effectively communicate with one another. The best relationships have great communication. However, any relationship can learn how!

Acclaimed Relationship & Life Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. holds a Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling, has over fifteen years of clinical experience working with individuals and couples, and has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website

http://www.itsthatsimple.ws

Relationship Help Advice For Men: How To Get Your Wife To Have More Sex With You!

Advice For Men From Relationship Expert Bree

Relationship Help Tips To Get Your Wife To Have More Sex With You!

The number one relationship help question I am asked by married men is, “How do I get my wife to have more sex with me?”

This question can appear as if the man is only interested in sex. Although he is interested in sex, the question goes deeper that that. He is actually looking for a simple answer to why he is being rejected by his wife. Shockingly many wives regularly reject their husbands when approached for sex. This behavior is very damaging for their relationship and must be addressed as soon as possible!

Relationship Help Advice For Men: Your Wife & Sex #1:

Understanding the differences between how men and women approach sex is crucial in getting your wife to have more sex with you!

Men typically approach sex with a “head on” mentality. Women on the other hand, need to be eased into it. If a woman feels rushed or ambushed for sex from her husband she will automatically have a knee jerk reaction and reject him. Most of the time she has no idea how hurtful and damaging this is to her husband.

Relationship Help Advice For Men: Your Wife & Sex #2:

Once a man has the complete picture on how his wife wants to be approached for sex, he needs to understand the next step in the process. This step is emotionally connecting with you wife. “What does that mean?” is most mens reaction to that step! This is because men are not raised nor taught how to emotionally connect with others. Ironically, women are not just taught this but trained in it from the time they are little girls!

Relationship Help Advice For Men: Your Wife & Sex #3:

In order to emotionally connect with your wife you must tune into how she is feeling on many levels. This means that you talk with her about her feelings about her day, her work, the kids, her dreams, her fears etc. This is about helping her feel close to you emotionally. Once she does, she will be much more open to being close to you physically.

Relationship Help Advice For Men: Your Wife & Sex #4:

Assuming a man has taken the first three steps to heart and applied them it is time to move on to what I like to call the “fluids” step.  This is preparing your wife’s body to desire to have sex with you. The worst thing you can do is to grab at her breast, bottom, and vagina and say something like “Come on honey lets have sex.”

The best thing you can do is to get her fluids flowing. You can do this by sensually caressing and kissing her arm, neck, or legs without the imitate intention of intercourse. You must allow her body time to catch up with you. Just as you would not drive a sports car without gas in the tank, you do not want to “driver” your wife without her body’s sexual fluids flowing! Take your time and pay lots of attention to her whole body not just it’s parts!

Relationship Help Advice For Men: Your Wife & Sex #6:

This final step is absolutely crucial to set up a complete positive experience for your wife. Yes, it is the dreaded “pillow talk” time! Women crave emotional connection after intercourse because it makes them feel more bonded with her man. Ironically, most men want to disconnect after intercourse. Although that is what is most natural, the wise man will use this tip every time!

If you found these steps helpful but need more help reach me here to work with you!

Acclaimed Relationship Expert & Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. holds a Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling, has over fifteen years of clinical experience working with individuals and couples, and has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.
Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website

http://www.itsthatsimple.ws

Free Relationship Help Online Can Be Good Advice When You Use Discernment!

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Free Relationship Help Online Can Be Good Advice!

The amount of free relationship help online is staggering! “Google” most any relationship question and you will be bombarded with a sea of information. Be aware that some of this relationship help information is substantiated and some is not. To help you figure out if the free relationship help online you are getting is good or not follow this five-point checklist:

Free Relationship Help Online Checklist #1:

Always start by verifying the source of the information. Anyone can write anything they want and post it to the internet. For that fact, the source of your free relationship help online needs to be educated and have the right credentials. For example, a guy who cleans pools writing about relationships is not a valid source. However, a relationship expert, relationship coach, or relationship counselor is!

Free Relationship Help Online Checklist #2:

Be specific in your relationship help search. Many times if your question is too broad the narrowing down process is exhausting. For instance, if you want to find out how to get your wife to have more sex with you- search that exact question versus “wife and sex.”

Free Relationship Help Online Checklist #3:

Always trust your instincts when reading the free relationship help online. If your “gut” is telling you something is not right here then move on quickly. Many times when people are looking for relationship help they are too eager to get a quick answer. This often creates them finding useless or misleading information that can sometimes hurt their relationship.

Free Relationship Help Online Checklist #4:

Be very leery of relationship advice that guides you to be disrespectful, rude, or cruel in anyway. There is a plethora of relationship help advice that tells men and women how to behave badly with one another in order to “hook” them. This type of relationship help is not only misleading it can cause real damage to a relationship or a budding relationship. Always, always, always come from a place of love with your partner and never manipulation.

Free Relationship Help Online Checklist #5:

It is important to understand that you will only get so far with free relationship help online. To find the deeper and more expansive answers, you will have to either buy a relationship help book or work with a relationship coach or counselor.

I always suggest the It’s That Simple! relationship help books for men and women for those who can not afford to hire a relationship coach or counselor. These simple yet powerful books give you the information and tools to change your relationship for the better!

Acclaimed Relationship & Life Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. holds a Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling, has over fifteen years of clinical experience working with individuals and couples, and has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website

http://www.itsthatsimple.ws

Help For Relationship Problems From Relationship Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.!

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Relationship Help For Relationship Problems From Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.

Every relationship will experience some ups and downs, that is normal. However, if a couple is experiencing consistent problems in their relationship it is time to get some help! What better person to get relationship help from then Relationship Expert & Relationship Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Bree has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW, & FOX NEWS along with National Radio Programming and National Publications.

Help For Relationship Problems From Relationship Coach Bree #1:

Never be ashamed to ask for help. There is a belief among many couples that if they ask for help from a professional it is admitting they have serious problems. In reality it is the complete opposite. Those relationships that reach out for assistance have a higher success rate than those who do not. Asking for help is a sign of strength and commitment to your relationship.

Help For Relationship Problems From Relationship Coach Bree #2:

Stop asking your co-workers, friends, and family for help with your relationship.  Although they are well meaning and are trying to help, they can end up projecting their own agendas onto your relationship. This cannot only create more problems in your relationship it can cause a divide between your partner and your friends and family. This especially happens when one partner says to the other, “So and so said you should do …”

Help For Relationship Problems From Relationship Coach Bree #3:

If your relationship needs some help work with someone who has the right credentials and experience with what you are dealing with. For example if you are having issues with communication with your partner be sure your therapist or Relationship Coach has the degree and experience to guide you in the right direction.

Help For Relationship Problems From Relationship Coach Bree #4:

The most important thing to do after admitting your relationship needs help and getting it is following through. When my clients do their homework and actively apply what I teach them there relationship transforms into an incredible one. It is one thing to learn the information, tools, and skills and another to actually use them!

Help For Relationship Problems From Relationship Coach Bree #5:

Always, always, always make your relationship a priority. It is so much easier to tweak small issues than recover and heal from large relationship problems. When a couple stays on top of the well-being of their relationship they will have less repair work to do and more enjoyment to experience. If, however, your relationship has gotten to the big problem area, not to worry! I have had couples come to me for help who were ready to file for divorce. I can happily say they not only stayed together but are happy and fulfilled within their relationship!

Acclaimed Relationship & Life Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. holds a Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling, has over fifteen years of clinical experience working with individuals and couples, and has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website

http://www.itsthatsimple.ws

Relationship Expert & Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer Gives Relationship Help Advice To Couples!

Relationship Expert Advice

Relationship Help For Couples

Relationships are never easy but having Bree Maresca-Kramer, who has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW, & FOX NEWS, is an incredible help for relationships! In her last interview Bree explained that she wants to be able to help everyone she can, so she offers free relationship help advice on her website.

If someone needs help and cannot afford to hire me as their coach, I want them to find the help they need. That is why I have put together a library of top relationship help articles I have written to provide answers to many relationship troubles.

Relationships, especially in today’s global economy, are under a great deal of pressure and stress. This can affect a couple on many levels, with their health, sex-life, and the lack of a well-being feeling.

Relationship Expert & Coach Bree: Relationship Help Advice #1:

Always keep the lines of communication open with your partner. Men and women must not only learn how to effectively communicate they must actually do it on a daily basis. This is so vital that there is a whole chapter on how to effectively communicate in the It’s That Simple! relationship help books.

Relationship Expert & Coach Bree: Relationship Help Advice #2:

Stress can tear a relationship apart faster than almost anything can. This is especially true when it involves stress over financial reasons. Quite often, a good relationship can become broken when financial stressors are not dealt with in a proper manner. When I work with a couple who is having financial difficulties, we first set relationship help goals. I then teach the couple coping mechanism they need to have in order to process the stress and not take it out on one another. I have seen many couples who came to me fighting terribly transform their relationship into a supportive and healed one.

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As human beings in human bodies when we do not feel well it will affect our relationship. That is why I work with a holistic approach with my clients addressing the body. I help them understand what is missing in their diet and supplementation to ensure they are feeling well physically. My clients are amazed at how much better they feel and how much their relationship improves when they feel good!

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Another unique aspect I use as a Relationship Coach is addressing how each partner is thinking about the other. Our thoughts are so powerful that they make or break a relationship. I teach my clients how to change their thinking patterns in order to fall in love with their partner again. It really is so beautiful to see two people who fell out of love, open their hearts, reconnect, and fall in love all over again!

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It is very important to always keep realistic expecations for ourselves and our partner. Often, when a couple comes to me for relationship help it is because their expectations are not being met. We first address each partner’s expectations to be sure they are attainable and they how the couple can work together to fulfill them.

Acclaimed Relationship & Life Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. holds a Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling, has over fifteen years of clinical experience working with individuals and couples, and has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website

http://www.itsthatsimple.ws

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