Dating Advice
Still Single On Valentine’s Day?
Help For Singles On Valentine’s Day
For someone who does not want to be single, Valentine’s Day can be one of the worst days of the year simply because it can exaggerate the feeling of being alone.
This is generally caused by the social hype of “love and romance” for couples only; leaving even the most confident single open to feeling down about being single.
I have great news! This Valentine’s Day will be different when you follow my proven two step plan.
Tips For Singles On Valentine’s Day
The first step is to embrace this overly commercialized holiday with a completely new perspective. Simply by shifting your perspective, you will empower yourself. Take charge and define this holiday rather than letting it define you or your relationship status.
What do I mean?
Well, since this holiday is all about LOVE grab hold of it and approach it as a day of feeling and spreading love in this world. Some simple ideas you can put into place…
- Send loving texts messages with sweet emojis to all you love
- Social Media Blast to all wishing them a day filled with only love
- Take someone you know, who is all alone, out to celebrate this day of love
- Hand make special Valentines cards and give those away to all you know and love
- Put together a “Love Celebration” with your other single friends. Be bold and make it themed night of fun, laughter and LOVE.
The goal is to not let the idea of and pressures of Valentine’s Day negatively impact your life. Instead, by consciously choosing to spread love, you will feel the joy of expressing love rather than feeling depressed for being single.
Tips For Singles On Valentine’s Day
The second step is to make a pro-active move with your life in order to meet your love. I help singles with this step in their lives all of the time. I prepare them to be in a healthy relationship while guiding them specifically on how to find that special one.
Together we deeply explore and clarify what kind of partner best suits them while setting and holding healthy boundaries for their new relationship. Then I teach them how to date to find the one instead of just dating around. Finally, I teach them how to keep and grow their new relationship into a fully loving one. If I can help you, please reach me here.
Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. is a Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert, Acclaimed Life & Relationship Coach, and Author of the relationship and self-help books It’s That Simple! for men & women.
Bree has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW, FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.
Bree has Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over twenty years of clinical experience working with men, women, and couples.
For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/
How To Find Love Through Online Dating
I am often asked if online dating really is a good way to find someone. My answer is Yes! just as long as you know what you are doing and keep a streamlined focus.
Here are some of my favorite tips for dating online and finding love…
Clarity:
Know exactly what you want in a partner and do not settle nor compromise on these things ever. A good place to start is to write a simple list of all the qualities you would like in your online match. From there, rank these from number one through number ten. Next, take your top five and write those qualities or characteristics out specifically in your profile paragraph. Take the remaining sixth through tenth and sprinkle those through your answers to the profile questions. Finally, know for sure your top three deal breakers. For most people these can include lifestyle choices, relationship goals, and wanting children or not. Stick to your deal breakers no matter how good the online profile you are viewing may seem.
Tips for dating online and finding love…
Honesty:
This is very simple…state who you really are, what you are looking for in a relationship, and share current, real-to-life photos of yourself. One of the biggest complaints I hear is that people put pictures of themselves when they were much younger or photos that no longer represent how they look now. The gig is up! If the person is attracted to your photo and you show up not looking as good as or better than your photo(s)-they will not be happy!
Tips for dating online and finding love…
Safety:
Whether you are a man or a woman online dating requires you to use good common sense and put in some safety nets. I recommend emailing back and forth for at least four or five times exchanging questions and answers. If this correspondence goes well, then go ahead and speak on the phone. If you like what you hear and wish to meet in person, be sure to exchange full names (search them online to find out all you can), tell someone who you are meeting and where, and then agree to meet in a very public place. Never give someone your personal address, have them meet you at your house, or in a secluded area-regardless of how great they seem.
Tips for dating online and finding love…
Fun:
So you make it to your first online dating date…have fun! Go into the date with a light-hearted attitude that you will meet someone new that may or may not be the one but you are going to have a good time no matter what. Stay on light conversations being sure not spill your entire life story out on your first date. The bottom line is that relationships take time, so take yours and enjoy.
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Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. is a Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert, Acclaimed Life & Relationship Coach, and Author of the relationship and self-help books It’s That Simple! for men & women.
Bree has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW, FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.
Bree has Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with men, women, and couples.
For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/