Dating and Relationship Help Advice For Men
Being dumped is never easy and most of us have experienced at least once in our lives. However, if this happens more than once or twice in your relationships, it is generally due to three main areas.
The first is having a faulty picker. In other words, choosing to date the wrong kind of woman for you. Usually when this happens, the woman is the first to figure it out only to bail on you and the relationship without much explanation at all. The bottom line is that most women want to find the right man to eventually settle down with. If they feel a man is not going to fit that mold or that they are wasting their time, they quickly end the relationship and move on. The key here is to learn how to pick the right woman for you from the start so this no longer happens.
The second has to do with something you are saying that is causing the woman to run. Women listen for red flags that tell her you are not a keeper. If she hears more than a few of these warning signs she will leave the relationship convinced you are not the right one or will hurt her in the end. If you are communicating that you are unstable, non-committal, or just looking for a good time she will be out of there as fast as possible. The problem for many good men who want relationships is that they end us saying things that are interpreted by women in this way.
Finally, you may be missing critical behaviors women look for in men they will seriously date. What does this mean exactly? Well. if you do not pursue her in the “right” way, she will believe that you are not serious about her or the relationship. This can lead her to open herself up to other men interested in her or leaving you all together. The key with this is making sure she feels you want a real relationship with her and are willing to do what it takes to make that happen. In most cases I have worked with, it is the man’s intention to have a great relationship but because he falls short in showing her this, she ends up leaving him.
Over the last fifteen years, with every man I have worked with in this area, not one intentionally did any of these things! That bears repeating because it is so important….not one did any of these three things on purpose.
Instead, they simply lacked vital information about women. They needed to understand how women think and feel along with a little guidance on how to win a woman’s heart so he can keep her and have a happy relationship.
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