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Relationship Expert Bree’s Do’s & Don’ts On A First Date!

 

Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A

 

Facing a first date can bring an array of mixed feelings including excitement, nervousness, and even dread! There is quite often incredible pressure put on a first date, which can lead both men and women to make dating mistakes preventing a relationship from developing.

 

The first and foremost rule of dating is always to come from an authentic place. Trying to present yourself as someone you are not is not only exhausting, it does not serve you or the other person well. The fact is that you are the most perfect you that exists. You are the only person in the world who can be the best you! Therefore, always be who you are…simply relax and show up as you.

 

Below are some more dating advice and relationship help Do’s and Don’ts for men and women for the first date!

 

Do’s For Men

  1. Always Be A Gentleman!

Go ahead and open doors, pull out her chair, and use your best manners. Women really enjoy and respond to this gentle treatment. A little chivalry always goes along way!

 

  1. Ask Pertinent Questions!

The best thing you can do to help the date go well is help her to talk about herself. The easiest way to accomplish this is to ask her a couple of key questions about her life, career, and family. This will let her know you are interested in getting to know her better.

 

  1. Take The Lead!

If the date goes well and you would like to see her again, secure the next date at the end of the first date. Never wait to call her for three days or play it “cool.” If you like her and think there may be potential for a relationship then pursue her!

 

Don’ts For Men

  1. Focus Only On You!

A first date killer is talking all about yourself. Although it may your nerves, it makes you come off as self-absorbed and uninterested in her. Relationships are give and take and it all starts with the first date!

 

  1. Don’t Show Her Your Stuff!

Even though it is natural to want to show a women you are interested in pictures of your home, car, boats, etc. it can come off as you are trying to impress her. If you like her, be sure to wait until your third date or later to share this with her.

 

  1. Don’t Touch Her First!

Women do not like when a man comes on too fast because it signals to her that he is a player or just interested in sex. If a woman wants you to have any type of physical contact with her, she will let you know by touching you on the arm or shoulder first. Once she does this, you can reach to hold her hand or give her a hug.

 

Do’s For Women

  1. Listen!

Be sure to ask him many questions about who he is and his life; then listen attentively. Be careful not to project what you want to hear but rather hear what he is actually telling you. To have a great relationship you need to pick a compatible match. If you want a serious relationship and he is telling you he is looking to date and have fun really hear that.

 

  1. Smile!

If the date is going well and you like him then smile. When you smile a lot it tells him you are interested in him. Be sure to pair this with good eye contact without staring and he will know you want him to ask you out again.

 

  1. Offer To Pay!

It is polite to offer to pay your portion of the bill when it is brought to the table. If he is a gentleman, he will never let you pay but will appreciate the gesture. If he has already made it clear he is paying then do not offer as he may take that as you are not interested. When he pays, immediately thank him by sharing with him how much you appreciate the great meal and time with him.

 

Don’ts For Women:

  1. Allow Him To Be A Gentleman!

If you act awkwardly or resistant when he opens the door or pulls out your chair you are signaling to him that you are not use to being treated nicely. Accept his gestures with grace and you both will feel good about it!

 

  1. Never Be Aggressive!

Leave your powerful professional woman at home and allow him to pursue you. You never want to act overtly sexual or come on to strong simply because it is a turn off for most men who are seriously looking for a real relationship.

 

  1. Flourish In Your Femininity!

If you really like him and want to see him, bite your lip and do not ask him out for the next date or say something like “call me!”  It is far better to allow him the opportunity to ask you out again because then you know he is really interested and not just feeling obligated because you asked.

 

If you need more relationship help or dating advice contact me here.

 

Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert, Acclaimed Life & Relationship Coach, & Author of the relationship help books It’s That Simple! for men and women Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.  has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.

Bree has Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with men, women, and couples.
Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/

Relationship Help From Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.

 

Expert Advice For Your Relationship Help Needs

 

Whether you are trying to find the right one, in a serious relationship, or marriage, you may unknowingly be making simple mistakes that create big problems.

 

If you are in the dating world but cannot seem to find the right one to start a relationship with then there are most likely problems with either your approach or actual dating skills. In either case, these can be easily solved with the right relationship help.

 

In a serious relationship or marriage and facing some issues that do not go away no matter what you try? Then it is time to get some sound relationship help to move you and your partner through this block in your relationship!

 

The most common areas couples have problems with in their relationship involve a lack of poor communication, lack of emotional and physical intimacy, built-up and unresolved resentments, and infidelity. In each of these areas there is a way to heal and re-build a loving and lasting relationship.

 

As a relationship expert, I work with both male and female clients all over the United States teaching them successful dating and relationship help. I am able to do this because I successfully work with my clients over the phone or Skype sessions.

 

People ask me if this is as effective as working with face to face with me in person. Surprisingly, the clients I work with by telephone are the ones that move through their process the most rapidly.

 

Why? I believe it is due to the fact that they are in their home or office where they feel very comfortable and safe. They do not have to drive to my office, wait in the waiting room, get comfortable in my office setting, and then open up about their problems. They have a sense of protection from the anonymity they receive by working with me over the phone. For these reasons their healing process is quickened right from the start.

 

Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert, Acclaimed Life & Relationship Coach, & Author of the relationship help books It’s That Simple! for men and women Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW, FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post. Bree has Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with men, women, and couples.

 

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/

Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Helps Men

 

 

Relationship Help Especially For Men

 

Men today are finding it harder and harder to make their relationship work. This leaves most of these men feeling frustrated, angry and lost all of which can lead to wanting to give up and walk away.

 

Of course, this is the worst thing for the relationship. However, what else is a man to do when he has tried everything and nothing is working?

 

Relationship Help Expert Bree Tip #1 For Men: 

Listen!

A woman will tell you what she wants from you. Generally, she will not provide this valuable information directly though.

 

Why? Because she feels that if you loved her, you would know what she wants and needs from you.

 

That makes no sense to you as a man right? Well, that is why you must listen to her when she is sharing her ideas, thoughts, and feelings with you. She is communicating to you who she is and what she desires. For instance, if she drags you to go see a romantic comedy movie and tells you how much she loved it, she is telling you she wants more romance from you. Another example would be if she describes her friend’s husband and what he is doing for his wife, she is telling you this so you will do it as well.

 

This is very frustrating to men because they do not understand why a woman will not just tell them what they want.

 

The fact is that you cannot change how a woman communicates but you can learn how to decipher it!

 

Relationship Help Expert Bree Tip #2 For Men:

Act!

Once you have “heard” what your woman is looking for from you, even if it is a small thing go ahead and do it on a consistent basis. The key word here is consistent. Women look for consistency and not just a one-time action.

 

For example, if you have heard that your woman wants more help around the house or with the children, then every day make a point of doing at least one thing to help her out. After doing this ask her if there is anything else she would like for you to help her with and tell her you want to be supportive to her in anyway she needs. She will melt when she hears this!

 

Relationship Help Expert Bree Tip #3 For Men:

Listen Again!

A woman will continually change what she is looking for from you as you meet her current desires. I know this can be even more frustrating than her not telling you directly what she wants but it is true.

 

She is not doing this to be difficult or to keep you guessing, she is doing it because she is evolving every day. Her ideas, dreams, and desires change as she does so keeping up with her is key.

 

It really just takes a minimal effort once you understand this concept—she wants you to know her and provide for her what she needs without telling you straightforwardly. Once this really sinks in, you will be empowered because you know the secret-to listen and act on a consistent basis.

 

Relationship Help Expert Bree Tip #4 For Men:

Share!

A relationship should never be a one-way street. Just as she has things she wants to receive from you, the opposite is true.

 

What you desire from her is vital information that she needs to know and act on as well. Here is the tricky part, most men do not understand what they want or if they do, do not communicate it.

 

Therefore, you must understand what you would like to receive from her and tell her. For example, if you want Sunday afternoon to yourself to watch football, you need to share that information with her.  Let her know how important it is for you to have this downtime and how much it means to you when she allows that to happen.

 

 

I work one-on-one with men around the country via phone sessions to help them understand their woman or women in general. Click here to learn more!

 

Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.  has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post. Bree has Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with men, women, and couples.

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/

 

Secrets To Make A Marriage Last From Relationship Expert Bree!

 

 

Relationship Help For Marriages From Expert Bree

 

I recently met a very happily married couple of twenty-seven years and asked them what they thought the secret was to their successful marriage. In unison they replied “commitment.”  They shared with me that in their particular faith divorce is not an option and because of that they never considered it as a possibility. They went on to share that they have had issues along the way but knew it was far more important to work through them as they were not leaving the relationship.

 

As I watched how this couple interacted I saw additional elements that definitely make a marriage work.

 

To begin, they had great respect for another and communicated very well. When one spoke the other listened intently and responded with thoughtfulness and care. They gave one another good eye contact, used humor, and supportive uplifting words with one another.

 

Another aspect they possess is what I like to call a “team-centered” approach to their marriage. They treated one another like partners both working toward the same goal. They loved and supported one another and spoke in “we” language.

 

Finally, they had shared values, morals, faith, and interests outside their children. They both enjoyed doing the same things and made a point of having fun together. They had a shared vision of what the rest of their married life will be like which included mutually specific travel spots around the world.

 

As we said our goodbyes, I told them they were so inspiring that I was going to write about their marriage and share relationship help tips to other couples. Smiles from ear to ear ran across their faces as they beamed with joy!

 

 If you would like help with your relationship please contact me here.

 

Acclaimed as the Best Relationship & Life Coach and Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post. Bree has a Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with individuals and couples.

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/

Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Gives Dating Advice For Single Men!

 

 

Dating Advice For Men

 

Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.

 

There are all types of single men out there in the dating world. Some want to have fun and only casually date many women while others are looking for that special woman to have a relationship with. In either case, when a man does not know how to date, he ends up wasting his time and money on the wrong women.

 

Relationship Expert Bree Gives Advice For Single Men & Dating #1:

Know What You Want!

One of the biggest mistakes a single man can make is not being clear on his ultimate goal when it comes to dating and the type of woman he wants to be in a relationship with.

This may sound like common sense but many single men haphazardly enter the dating world unsure about what they want to get out of it. They end up coming to me for help because they are tired of meeting the wrong women and feel defeated by the experience.

 

Relationship Expert Bree Gives Advice For Single Men & Dating #2:

Know How To Find It!

Once a man is clear on what he wants, he has to know how to attain it. When I work one-on-one with a man in this area, I help him to remove any self-sabotaging thoughts or behaviors that are keeping him from the woman and relationship he wants to have in his life.

This is an interesting part of the work I do with men because they so often are thinking and behaving in ways that drive women away from them without even knowing it. After we correct those mistakes their entire dating experience changes for the better!

 

Relationship Expert Bree Gives Advice For Single Men & Dating #3:

Know How To Court!

Hands down the biggest complaint I hear from single women is that “men today do not know how to court a woman.”

When I am working with a man, I teach him the ins and outs of dating a woman. We work on everything from confidence building to communication styles so that he is well prepared to successfully date. He will know exactly what to do to make a woman feel special and how to stand out from the crowd of men who are already pursuing her.

 

Relationship Expert Bree Gives Advice For Single Men & Dating #4:

Understand How Women Think & Feel!

Men and women are different creatures! We think, feel, and process information differently. When I work with a man he will learn how women think and feel along with their hidden expectations for men. Once a man understands this information, the road to successful dating and a relationship is made very easy.

 

Considered to be the Best Relationship Coach and Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post. She has a Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with individuals and couples.
Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website
http://itsthatsimple.ws/

 

 

 

Top Relationship Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Helps Men With Dating & Relationships

Dating & Relationship Help For Men

Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Helps Men

The major complaint I hear from single men actively dating is that they do not know what women want. When I share this with the single women I work with they are in absolute shock because they believe men automatically know what they want.

Thus, once again we have men and women searching for the same thing, finding that special someone and having a relationship, but feeling lost and frustrated with all of the dating games.

This is why I developed a special dating coaching program just for men. In this program a man will learn…

Top Relationship Expert & Coach Bree Helps Men With Dating & Relationships

How To Become Irresistible To Women

As my client a man will learn how to develop and master a level of confidence that will naturally draw women to him. In addition, he will learn how to take the lead and stay in control of the dating process. Finally, he will learn how to quickly create a bond that keeps her wanting more of him.

Top Relationship Expert & Coach Bree Helps Men With Dating & Relationships

How To Get Inside A Woman’s Head

Most men have no idea how women think, feel, process or communicate. In order to have a great relationship with a woman a man must know “women speak” and then be able to communicate with her. In my dating coaching program for men he will learn to decode what she really means and is trying to tell him. From there we will move on to him understanding what she is looking for and how to deliver it.

Top Relationship Expert & Coach Bree Helps Men With Dating & Relationships

How To Find The Right Woman For You

So many men waste their precious time and hard earned money with the wrong woman. I teach the single men I work with a simple and easy to use technique to quickly determine if the woman he is interested in is right for him. Once he has this down pat we move onto removing any thoughts or behaviors that are blocking him from having the woman of his dreams.

Considered to be the Best Relationship Coach and Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post. She has a Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with individuals and couples.

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website

http://www.itsthatsimple.ws

Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Helps Couples With Her Relationship Coaching

Relationship Help For Couples

Relationship Expert & Relationship Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.

We were unsure what exactly a relationship coach does so we went the best relationship coach and relationship expert there is Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. to find out!

She explained to us that all relationships would experience some difficult times. However, for those couples who are stuck with a specific issue and just cannot get through it, it is time to get some help.

Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Helps Couples With Her Relationship Coaching: Question #1

Bree, what are the main reasons a couple comes to you for help?

“Generally the top reasons couples come to me for help is because they are having trouble with their communication, level of intimacy, finances, or have experienced an infidelity. Of course there are other reasons but these are the most common.  The great news for the couples I work with is that if they are willing and follow the plan I set out for them they can and will get through it to have a happy and healthy relationship!”

Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Helps Couples With Her Relationship Coaching: Question #2

Bree out of these reasons what would you say is the hardest to deal with?

“All of these issues can be very hard for a couple to handle on their own. However, the most severe is the infidelity. It is almost impossible for a couple to get through an infidelity without some professional help. This is not to say a couple cant do it on their own, they can, it is just very difficult without a neutral third party who is experienced in helping couples move through the healing process. My experience as a Mental Health Counselor is a vital part in my ability to help couples.”

Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Helps Couples With Her Relationship Coaching: Question #3

Bree How long does it usually take for a couple to get through an issue when they work with you?

“Each couple and their issue are unique to them so the amount of time it takes is very individual. I have some clients who need a few sessions while others who work with me for years. It really depends on what it is they need help with. If both partners are willing to do what it takes, then the process moves very quickly and easily.

If you have one partner who is willing and the other is not it slows the process down quite a bit. This actually happens more than you would think. In that case I work with the one partner directly giving him or her tools to use with their partner. More times than not, eventually the other partner will join us because they notice positive changes in their partner.”

Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Helps Couples With Her Relationship Coaching: Question #4

Bree is hiring you affordable for most couples?

“I keep my coaching fees very reasonable so as many people can afford to work with me as possible. However, in our current global financial state many couples do not have any extra resources to spend so I highly recommend they get the It’s That Simple! relationship help book for men and the It’s That Simple! relationship help book for women.

These books are written especially to help men and women in a language they can simply understand, follow, and apply to their relationship. The reader will receive proven successful tools, information, and guidance that will help their relationship become happy and healthy.”

Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Helps Couples With Her Relationship Coaching: Question #5

Bree do you find most people are scared to reach out for help?

“No, not compared to fifteen years ago. Fortunately, the stigma of getting help has lessoned greatly in our country for both men and women. Now, people are proud to say ‘I work with a relationship coach’ when before they would have kept that to themselves. I am happy to report that just as many men are reaching out for my help as women are. This says a lot for the growth of our society as a whole!”

Considered to be the Best Relationship Coach and Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post. She has a Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with individuals and couples.

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website

http://www.itsthatsimple.ws

Best Relationship Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Helps Couples After An Infidelity!

Relationship Expert Bree Maresca -Kramer M.A.

Relationship Help for An Infidelity

Many people believe that a relationship cannot survive an infidelity. This is an erroneous belief because the fact is that a relationship can make it through as long as the couple has the right tools and willingness to do so.

An infidelity occurs for many reasons and there is not one cookie cutter answer to why. However, there is a way to get past it, heal the relationship, and become even stronger because of it. I have helped many men and women discover why the infidelity occurred and then how to rebuild their relationship. This process is not an easy one as it involves an incredible amount of emotional pain that must be directly addressed and healed. However, for those couples who want to keep their relationship together the good news is they can!

Best Relationship Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.-Help For An Infidelity #1:

Understanding Why It Happened!

It is very important for a couple to become clear on why one or both partners decided to step outside the boundaries of their committed relationship. I am able to work with my clients on this step only if when they are willing to be honest with themselves and their partner. Once the reason is exposed then the actual healing from the infidelity begins. A couple will experience great relief at this stage in the process along with a glimmer of hope that they can make it.

Best Relationship Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.-Help For An Infidelity #2:

Repairing The Trust!

Trust in a relationship is one of the fundamental key elements that must be present for the relationship to thrive. When an infidelity has occurred rebuilding the trust is vital. This part of the healing process is very individual for each couple. Some are able to start trusting quickly while others take much longer. Again the ability for the couple to successfully rebuild the trust has everything to do with the willingness on the part of the partners to do what it takes to make that happen.

Best Relationship Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.-Help For An Infidelity #3:

Avoiding The Trouble Spots!

Once a couple understands why the infidelity happened, they are well equipped with the information needed to make sure it never does again. In most cases, there are pre-warning signs, which came about before the infidelity actually took place. When couples are made aware of what to pay attention too, they are better able to ensure the sanctity of their commitment to one another.

Best Relationship Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.-Help For An Infidelity #4:

Starting Fresh!

When I am working with a couple who are in this healing process they will get to the point when the emotional pain subsides and they are ready to begin again. This step is quite enjoyable for the couple because they experience the rediscovering of one another and the love they have for each other all over again. This is the time the couple actually falls in love again!

Best Relationship Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.-Help For An Infidelity #5:

Continuing Forward!

Once the relationship has gone through the healing stages and is in a new place, I help them make a plan of action to ensure their relationship continues to grow and flourish. They are given the information, tools, and guidance to keep their relationship happy and healthy for the long term!

Considered to be the Best Relationship Coach and Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post. She has a Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with individuals and couples.
Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website

http://www.itsthatsimple.ws

Best Relationship Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Helps Couples Stop Fighting!

Relationship Coach & Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A.

Get Relationship Help To Stop Fighting Here!

Whether I am in a grocery store, at a child’s birthday party, or out to dinner, there are always couples who are in a fight and not speaking to one another or who are actively fighting.  These couples range anywhere from dating to married with kids. Especially today with the financial and life stressors being so high, I developed a special relationship-coaching program just for couples to help them stop fighting with one another.

Best Relationship Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Helps Stop Fighting #1:

Get To The Core!

When a couple continually fights there is a specific reason. Whether it is unresolved old resentments, poor communication skills, or childhood issues being triggered the core of the arguing must be uncovered, addressed, and healed.

As a relationship coach and former Mental Health Counselor I work with my clients one-on-one via phone sessions to help them understand what the core issue of their fighting is all about. Once a couple has this vital information they are on the road to ending their misery and finding happiness together again.

Best Relationship Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Helps Stop Fighting #2:

Find Understanding!

When a couple can become sympathetic to one another’s perception, true understanding enters their relationship. This is so very important to have in a happy and healthy relationship. However, most couples will look to insert their way or perception instead of trying to understand where their partner is coming from.

My relationship-coaching program teaches couples how to become empathetic to each other by first understanding their partners perception. This does not mean they must agree on everything but it does mean they become tolerant of one another’s viewpoint.

Best Relationship Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Helps Stop Fighting #3:

Develop Better Communication Skills!

By far one of the biggest reasons couples fight is a lack of effective communication skills. When a couple does not have these tools they will often run into misunderstandings, hurt feelings, and resentments, which all lead to the break down of a relationship.

This is so vital that in my It’s That Simple! relationship help books there is a whole chapter dedicated to teaching effective communication tools. There is a It’s That Simple! for Women and It’s That Simple! for Men available.

If a couple is not ready to work with me as a relationship coach then I highly recommend they at least get these books to help them stop fighting and have a happy relationship.

Best Relationship Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Helps Stop Fighting #4:

Start Dating Again!

Once a couple can get to the core issue, find understanding, and use proper communication tools with one another they are ready for the fun part of getting to date again!

This part of the relationship-coaching program teaches couples how to have fun with one another again. When a couple has been caught up in the negative cycle of fighting they rarely have had any fun together.  When the couple I am working with is able to get past the pain and hurt, they are ready to experience some fun. Having fun together is an extremely underrated but vital element in a healthy relationship.

Best Relationship Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. Helps Stop Fighting #5:

Find The Love & Intimacy Again!

When I am working with a couple, this is the final step they take in the healing process. It is the time in which we address and heal their emotional and physical intimacy. At this point in the process, I teach the couple how to grow closer both emotionally and physically so that their overall relationship becomes very fulfilling.

The couple has an opportunity to experience the giving and receiving of love with one another at a whole new level. This part of the process is absolutely beautiful as I get to help a couple who were once incredibly unhappy find and express the love they have for one another!

Considered to be the Best Relationship Coach and Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post. She has a Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and over fifteen years of clinical experience working with individuals and couples.

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website

http://www.itsthatsimple.ws

Relationship Expert & Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer: Get Relationship Help When You Need It!

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Finding Relationship Help

All relationships, even the healthiest ones, run into some difficult patches now and then.  Those couples who do not have the proper relationship tools to get through complicated times are the ones who fall apart and do not make it. Most of the time, in these cases,  the couple needed some relationship help and would have been able to stay together. The unfortunate fact is that so many men and women were not taught these tools while growing up and are left to figure it out for themselves. When I work with couples I often times have to start with the very basics such as with communication, feeling identification, boundaries, and intimacy issues. When a couple has the willingness to learn and apply the right tools miracles in their relationship happen!

Relationship Expert & Coach Bree: Get Relationship Help When #1:

A Problem That Will Not Go Away!

If a couple has a problem that continues to arise and is not able to come to a solution it is time to get help. If a couple does not take action, the repetitive issue usually snowballs into other concerns causing more damage in the relationship. Many times a couple will come to me for help with just one issue. As soon as it is addressed and healed they move on with their relationship stronger and wiser.

Relationship Expert & Coach Bree: Get Relationship Help When #2:

Too Much Silence!

When a couple stops talking it is a definite sign that they need help. Silence between partners is sometimes worse than fighting, as it can represent a defeated attitude toward the relationship. When one or both partners give up it is extremely difficult to make the relationship work. There must be willingness to do what it takes to make it work and talking it out is one of those things.

Relationship Expert & Coach Bree: Get Relationship Help When #3:

Not Enough Intimacy!

When a couple loses their emotional and physical bond that is a huge red flag and help must be attained immediately! A healthy relationship needs both a strong emotional and physical bond. Many couples allow life stressors to get in the way and block these two vital pieces of their relationship. When a couple sees one or both of these parts of their relationship not working it is definitely time to get help.

Relationship Expert & Coach Bree: Get Relationship Help When #4:

Fighting Unfairly!

Fighting is a normal part of a relationship, as it represents differences coming to the surface of two individuals. When a couple can  argue  and work through it respecting one another, their relationship has a high survival rate. On the other hand, while a couple is fighting if they use blame, shame, or hurtful words or accusations they are causing great damage, which could ultimately end their relationship. There is a way to fight fairly that I teach my clients that changes everything!

Relationship Expert & Coach Bree: Get Relationship Help When #5:

Poor Communication Styles!

This has to be by far one of the most important facets in a healthy relationship. So many couples have no idea how to effectively communicate with one another. A man must learn how to talk with his woman and a woman must learn how to talk with her man in order for their relationship to work.

That is why there is a whole chapter dedicated to teaching men and women how to talk with one another in the It’s That Simple! relationship help book for men and It’s That Simple! relationship help book for women.

When a couple runs into times where things could be better that is the time to get help rather than waiting for things to magically get better on their own. The fact is that relationship problems do not go away on their own. It takes information, tools, and guidance to solve the problems and have a healthy, happy, and thriving relationship!

Nationally Recognized Relationship Expert, Acclaimed Relationship & Life Coach Bree Maresca-Kramer M.A. holds a Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling, has over fifteen years of clinical experience working with individuals and couples, and has been featured on NBC, CBS, The CW,  FOX NEWS, National Radio Programming, The Chicago Tribune, Shape Magazine, In-Touch Magazine, The Nest Magazine, Woman’s Day Magazine, E-Harmony, AOL, and is a Relationship Expert Columnist for The Huffington Post.

Relationship Help Expert Bree Maresca-Kramer provides relationship help books online and free relationship help online.

For more information on Relationship Help Online please visit Bree’s website

http://www.itsthatsimple.ws

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